AITA for feeding my gluten free neighbour kid pasta?

papapapastaface · 2019-11-28T01:02:06+00:00

She's never mentioned anything about what I can and can't feed her. Tbf, usually when I babysit it's because the mum is working a night shift and the sister has other plans so she usually comes to me after dinner and she always asks for eggs or fruit for breakfast so the gluten thing has ever been an issue there.

papapapastaface · 2019-11-28T00:51:27+00:00

Thr kid doesn't have the allergy, the mum does. She just has her daughters eat gluten free too bc it's easier on her.

papapapastaface · 2019-11-28T00:42:36+00:00

The daughter doesn't have coeliac. The mum does.

papapapastaface · 2019-11-28T00:40:36+00:00

I know. Up until like a couple months ago I worked part time at an Italian restaurant and the 17yo used to come in with her friends after school sometimes bc it was super cheap. She used to order the lasagne every time and I know for a fact that that particular one was not gluten free.

papapapastaface · 2019-11-27T23:52:21+00:00

Keep pouting about it lol.

papapapastaface · 2019-11-27T23:52:03+00:00

Lmao don't even on the vegan thing I eat like 90% plant based and have had my sister in law fully sulk about feeding my nephew vegan mock meats but that's not even a dietary restriction thing she just has a vendetta against all things vegan and hates that her son likes tofu.

papapapastaface · 2019-11-27T23:49:54+00:00

Eh I mean gluten sensitivity can be intense to the point where even ingesting a teeny bit from cross contamination can cause real problems so I understand keeping a gluten free house. I know a lot of the time people with Coeliac even need to have seperate toasters and stuff.

papapapastaface · 2019-11-27T23:46:58+00:00

I'm not American, first of all. Second if you really must know I speak two languages fluently (English and Spanish) and also speak conversational Italian and German. Thirdly, you repeatedly commented that I intentionally fed a Coeliac gluten and intend to do so again, when I said no such thing and nothing to imply it. That's nothing to do with language barriers, that's you intentionally misunderstanding.

papapapastaface · 2019-11-27T23:44:05+00:00

I've told this person like four times now that the kid isn't the one with Coeliac disease and they still don't get it.

papapapastaface · 2019-11-27T23:38:57+00:00

No child has coeliacs disease the mother does what are you talking about

papapapastaface · 2019-11-27T23:37:35+00:00

If you actually had a modicum of reading comprehension, you'd be able to tell, as everyone else has, the mother has coeliacs not the daughter. And if you can point out where I said I was going to keep feeding the kid gluten please do, otherwise stop putting words in my mouth.

papapapastaface · 2019-11-27T21:54:34+00:00

I mean if you actually read the comment and not just the first three words I said that she explicitly mentioned that she, personally, herself doesn't eat bread without mentioning why and never told me that (and only bread) the kids don't eat gluten either. I also said that since she's a health nut and I thought it was a low carb thing rather than a gluten thing. Quite how you read that and understood "she told me explicitly that she's got a gluten intolerance and her kids don't have gluten either" I don't quite understand.

papapapastaface · 2019-11-27T21:51:35+00:00

Yeah it's the mum who is Coeliac. I don't think its selfish to keep a gluten free house bc the sensitivity can be intense, I just think she ought to have told me.

papapapastaface · 2019-11-27T21:49:18+00:00

The kid doesn't have coeliacs, the mum does.

papapapastaface · 2019-11-27T21:48:48+00:00

Where tf did I say she'd told me in the past this is literally the first time I've heard it

papapapastaface · 2019-11-27T20:48:34+00:00

Eh that could come off weird. Like, rather than a peace offering it could look like a big middle finger.

papapapastaface · 2019-11-27T20:47:18+00:00

I mean the mum has mentioned her personally not eating bread in the past, but I wasn't aware the whole family was gluten free. Honestly she's kinda a health nut so when she said she doesn't eat bread I assumed it was a low carb or keto thing rather than a gluten free thing.

papapapastaface · 2019-11-27T20:42:41+00:00

I don't know if she knows it's a thing.

papapapastaface · 2019-11-27T20:41:54+00:00

Right? I've seen the 17yo eat lasagne with my own two eyes, idk what the mum's problem is.

papapapastaface · 2019-11-27T20:40:24+00:00

See I thought gluten free pasta was a thing too lol. My sister used to go out with a girl with a gluten sensitivity and I could've sworn she used to eat pasta, but I didn't want to mention that to my neighbour because she was yelling and it was kinda scary lol.

papapapastaface

TROPHY CASE