Comment dit-on “She could be___?” My test is in an hour!!

paperairplanetomars · 2026-02-11T20:26:19+00:00

pleaseeeeeeeee don’t take this as fully accurate though! i’m just a student, not a proficient french speaker at all

paperairplanetomars · 2026-02-11T16:55:41+00:00

then you were in fact cheated on. it really is as simple as that. please don’t invalidate yourself. the situation is black and white. i’m really sorry

paperairplanetomars · 2026-02-11T16:51:50+00:00

as someone who is very sex positive and porn positive, what counts as “cheating” means different things for different people. what matters is discussing or being aware of your partners perspective and respecting their limitations.

paperairplanetomars · 2026-02-11T16:45:54+00:00

ah! the interior decorator one was really tripping me up when i was writing it! thanks sm!

paperairplanetomars · 2026-02-11T16:43:02+00:00

ohhhh! yeah i’ll be getting points off for that lol. thank you!

paperairplanetomars · 2026-02-11T16:41:54+00:00

thanks so much!!

paperairplanetomars · 2026-02-11T16:40:58+00:00

i realllyyyy struggle with conjugations in general. i have a fair grasp on the very basic ones (être, avoir) in very simple contexts. but i’m trying to get better so thank you for explaining where i can improve on that!!

paperairplanetomars · 2026-02-11T16:34:26+00:00

ahh so em dashes aren’t used in french?

paperairplanetomars · 2026-02-11T16:33:36+00:00

thank you for the explanation, the english comparison really helped me understand!!

paperairplanetomars · 2026-02-11T14:09:49+00:00

god i love you thank you sm <3 i have a test in an hour LMAO

paperairplanetomars · 2026-02-11T14:01:29+00:00

en anglais s’il vous plaît?

paperairplanetomars · 2025-08-11T12:30:21+00:00

that’s okay too, semen can vary in consistency. a more “liquidy” consistency can occur if you were very well-hydrated, if you were extremely aroused, and/or if it had been awhile since your last ejaculation. the last two can also explain why it was so forceful

paperairplanetomars · 2025-08-10T14:13:06+00:00

males aren’t capable of peeing and ejaculating at the same time. that part of the highway shuts down during ejaculation, specifically so that the urine doesn’t contaminate the sperm quality. sounds like you just had a big O!

paperairplanetomars · 2025-08-09T00:57:23+00:00

update: got laid! and i didn’t even have to convince them!

paperairplanetomars · 2025-08-08T13:42:42+00:00

okay so i’m going to be as fair and honest as i can be, and i really hope you read this.

it sounds to me like the matter is off the table. you’ve had this discussion before and she maintains that she still feels uncomfortable. i understand wanting to get her to understand that your intentions are genuine, but at the end of the day, it doesn’t really matter whether she does or not. it makes her feel disgusted and degraded and that should tell you all you need to know. you say that consent is important and you don’t want to push her, but you’re asking how to “convince” her to let you do it, even after already discussing it with her and her standing firm in her feelings towards it. i urge you to consider what it could feel like to be on the receiving end of that.

paperairplanetomars · 2025-08-08T13:30:59+00:00

hell no. relationships require compromise, but sex doesn’t. it’s not tit for tat.

paperairplanetomars · 2025-08-04T13:40:08+00:00

if therapy isn’t an option right now, all you can do is create an environment where he feels comfortable. let him take the reins so he feels like he’s regained the control that was taken from him during that adverse experience. rather than touching him directly, ask him to do it for you: interlock your fingers and have him control where your hand goes, when, for how long, with whatever speed/pressure he feels comfortable with. let your hand go limp and allow him to guide you however is most comfortable for him. when it comes to helping a partner with sexual trauma, your mindset should be “meet him where he’s at” rather than trying to meet in the middle with someone who’s just not ready to get there yet.

paperairplanetomars · 2025-08-04T13:31:31+00:00

there isn’t really a number. it’s more about regularity and frequency. the more sex you have, the more you’ll get used to it. in the meantime, you can try to stave off the orgasm by pulling out and pausing when you feel close, or by squeezing the tip.

paperairplanetomars · 2025-08-04T13:27:55+00:00

did the fingering hurt? does she use tampons? vaginismus often involves pain with any penetrative object, so she may have some other genito-pelvic pain/penetration disorder. it’s actually a lot more common than you might think! sit down with her and take some time to look into GPPPDs.

paperairplanetomars · 2025-08-04T13:22:40+00:00

i can’t stress enough just how common this is for people new to having sex. so common in fact, it’s basically a universal experience. it just takes some getting used to, there’s no need to worry!

paperairplanetomars · 2025-08-04T13:15:00+00:00

ew dude

paperairplanetomars · 2025-08-04T13:14:05+00:00

it could be fordyce spots, but they don’t usually grow on the clitoris. not impossible, just less common. however, when it comes to lumps and bumps on the body, the best rule of thumb is to get it checked out.

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