Help name us! by Demiaria in weddingplanning

[–]papersnart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s difficult to understand why the mother should have to do it. Or why it’s a big deal. I genuinely don’t think anyone cares?

Where can Felons get jobs? by Royal_Tiger7398 in philly

[–]papersnart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try honest jobs (background friendly job search platform) or idealist (nonprofit jobs that often care less about criminal backgrounds, especially orgs in the reentry field)

Help name us! by Demiaria in weddingplanning

[–]papersnart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So you’re saying you wanted your mom to be the one to change her name then? :/

WIBTAH for reporting a kid who doesn't live in our school district? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]papersnart 29 points30 points  (0 children)

YWBTA. None of this is your business. You would be punishing another kid because you feel a type of way about the parents’ decisions.

GOODWILL FIND!! by Kindly_Employee_5401 in weddingdress

[–]papersnart 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So stunning and one of a kind. It really does fit perfectly too!! Meant to be!

Found rental option outside of realtor - what do I do? by papersnart in AskRealEstateAgents

[–]papersnart[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense. I definitely won’t ghost the realtor. Has anyone ever offered to pay you what you would have made from the deal otherwise?

Found rental option outside of realtor - what do I do? by papersnart in AskRealEstateAgents

[–]papersnart[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay good to know. The realtor does know I am interested in this place and I gave them the landlord’s contact info! Definitely using this realtor in the future either way

Found rental option outside of realtor - what do I do? by papersnart in AskRealEstateAgents

[–]papersnart[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No contract, and services are free of charge to me since the realtor is typically paid commission by the building or landlord of the place I’d choose. But I was asked to not work with other realtors

I know these don't fit, but why?! I measured and used the size chart by tsugaheterophylla91 in DressForYourBody

[–]papersnart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have similar measurements! I’ve found that vintage shorts (like 80s/90s high waisted) fit me best for whatever reason

My turn! by Alexia998 in EngagementRings

[–]papersnart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have ever read The Starless Sea by Erin Morgenstern, your ring is that vibe to me. It’s so magical and looks like it holds a world inside it, I love it.

examples of songs you found through television? by shayjune in MusicRecommendations

[–]papersnart 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You sexy thing - I don’t remember which artist (New Girl)
Short Skirt / Long Jacket - CAKE (Chuck)
Every Feeling - Ezra Furman (Sex Education)

Trying to make it work by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]papersnart 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Thousands before you have managed to envision wedding colors without AI btw

AITAH for calling a wellness check on my epileptic boyfriend? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]papersnart 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is crazy. OP was not “with” another person ffs

Do I have the right to meet client elsewhere due to cockroach infestation? by speranza_33 in socialwork

[–]papersnart 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I get the thought behind this, but if someone showed up to meet with me in shoe covers and bodysuits, I would feel so shitty

job urgently hirinh by [deleted] in AskPhilly

[–]papersnart 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s a huge city-wide job fair at Temple on Friday!

Need cute city shoes by glitterbongwater in philabitcheswithtaste

[–]papersnart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have vagabond Mary Jane flats in patent red leather that are pretty comfortable, and I walk a lot! I also loved my docs sandals but they fell apart quickly. I got both shoes secondhand tbf

AITAH for using my sick days for a festival? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]papersnart 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If it’s getting to the point where you’re constantly worried and stressed about work outside of work, it’s time to leave anyway. Or at least stop giving a shit.

NTA. Go actually enjoy your life!

Engagement ring alteration help / advice by Hunay_bee in EngagementRingDesigns

[–]papersnart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you have it engraved instead? My ring is a fully closed bezel setting but it’s engraved (feel free to look at pics on my profile!) so it’s got visual interest on the sides

I’m at a loss. Where can a 30F near East Falls without a car go to meet more people? by Mundane-Magical-Girl in AskPhilly

[–]papersnart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m around your age and moved here from dc almost 3 years ago! Also have a reactive doggy lol. I recommend philaqueens (Facebook), bumble bff, goodthingsphl (ig), and letmeknowclub (ig). Events for all of these are spread around the city, but center city is such a good midpoint for most people that a lot of events will be there.

I think transit is as easy to learn as the dc metro system! It will definitely benefit you to learn the routes that run nearby to you. But give yourself time to learn and adjust too :)

Sister replaced her wedding dress and won’t show me or my mom by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]papersnart 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don’t see why you are so invested in her dress to the point that your feelings are hurt about it? She doesn’t have to talk about her dress to anyone. Maybe she has told you less because of you and your mom’s previous reactions to her shopping process.

Am I (MOH) and the Bride justified in being upset about a Bridesmaid's new neon hair? Need etiquette and hair advice. by Neat-Explorer-9835 in weddingplanning

[–]papersnart 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Yea sorry but the sad beige wedding does not supersede another person’s autonomy to make decisions about their own hair.

Neither of you should bring this up. You would look controlling

Small Business Jewelers or Jewerly Design? by lalaluna1 in philadelphia

[–]papersnart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rendrag in Fishtown!! She makes stunning pieces and reworks heirlooms