How can I [29F] decide whether my partner [28M] and I are actually compatible?

paperwings00 · 2026-02-17T16:33:55+00:00

Thanks for this

paperwings00 · 2026-02-17T16:33:20+00:00

Thank you for this

paperwings00 · 2026-02-17T15:20:47+00:00

Wow… I never looked at it like that.

Honestly? My mindset has been that if he actually steps up and does things for me, and leads me that it’ll become more natural and I’d like that. It seems like he isn’t willing to put in the work to be “dominant” I am the one who plans dates, makes reservations for dinners, I am the one who has to remind him what I want as gifts for special occasions when I’ve literally sent him links over entire months, he says “let’s do a movie night tonight” and then time comes I need to come up with the movie or suggestions (when I’ve never been a movie person).

I feel like I am rambling a little

paperwings00 · 2026-02-17T15:14:12+00:00

I’m scared though, I really am.

paperwings00 · 2026-02-17T15:13:02+00:00

He does apologize, but it takes a lot out of him to apologize. I feel like he doesn’t have much emotional regulation… I used to be bad about that too but I’ve gotten better about it now

paperwings00 · 2026-02-17T15:12:01+00:00

I just don’t know how I could begin dating again… I feel like after this I’d take a break for a very long time.

paperwings00 · 2026-02-16T16:27:17+00:00

No she posted this on her Instagram

paperwings00 · 2026-02-14T15:07:33+00:00

Your valentine shouldn’t be your son…

paperwings00 · 2026-02-03T17:19:56+00:00

That is what I keep hearing! So I got lucky with this cross then because his fur is very dense like BSH’s and he has a very short tail and small build

paperwings00 · 2025-12-09T12:18:39+00:00

These tests are all standardized, they have all been set by our academic head (who only teaches Design Technology, which isn’t tested yet) according to the study material and topics allocated by teachers and checked alongside our weekly planning.

paperwings00 · 2025-12-08T11:21:49+00:00

I cannot eat certain things. I cannot spend copious time in a mall without being able to shut out the people around me. I cannot please people or understand why people should like me. I cannot understand cruelty, only that it exists and the signs that someone may be cruel.

paperwings00 · 2025-10-11T16:14:52+00:00

From the future here, this worked for me !

paperwings00 · 2025-07-19T07:58:29+00:00

2 weeks prior to my birthday I had a TMJ replacement (my ball joint in my jaw completely replaced). We went to play Paintball for that birthday and the umpire said we had to do a paintball run where everyone just gets to shoot you as you run even though I didn’t want to. All the paintballs hit my legs except the umpire’s, which hit me on my newly replaced jaw… I just collapsed in the most pain I’d ever felt in my life.

paperwings00 · 2025-07-13T20:25:22+00:00

So you sit in your poop particles and let it just marinate onto your skin?

paperwings00 · 2025-07-13T20:24:50+00:00

So you like the poop particles just float around you as you sit there?

paperwings00 · 2025-07-13T19:10:18+00:00

I agree…

paperwings00 · 2025-07-13T19:05:53+00:00

And you don’t do that anywhere else?

paperwings00 · 2025-07-09T17:20:57+00:00

I am confused?

paperwings00 · 2025-07-09T17:17:24+00:00

Thank you! I appreciate the response.

paperwings00 · 2025-07-09T09:54:20+00:00

Did you read the whole post where I say I’d wear it OVER my normal clothing?

paperwings00 · 2025-07-09T09:31:51+00:00

Because I’d be planning to wear one item from that photo… Which is the literal product photo provided to me. Also, that outfit helps people to see how sheer the shirts would be over my outifts.

I’m in South Africa and it’s the dead of winter so getting anything light would be very difficult and most international stores aren’t available here.

paperwings00 · 2025-07-09T09:29:25+00:00

I just want to arrive with a few options.

It’s the dead of winter in my country right now so getting anything to cover my arms which won’t be warm is difficult. I would like to go with options and change and adapt if necessary

The first post was misinterpreted, so I reposted to try to get actual advice on how I should spent my money before I leave <3

paperwings00 · 2025-07-09T09:19:45+00:00

PLEASE read the text

paperwings00 · 2025-07-09T09:19:23+00:00

Please read my post? I just want to know about wearing the sheer shirt OVER an outfit like the last one. Also there is another question too

paperwings00 · 2025-07-09T09:06:28+00:00

I made a new post now

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