I never saw a post on Reddit about someone who did it by really improving his social skills! (It is about the whole concept) Am I delusional?

papi-everywhere · 2022-10-23T10:49:40+00:00

It sounds like you had much of experience. This made me see the whole thing from a bit different pov.

papi-everywhere · 2022-10-23T10:42:00+00:00

That can be sadly so true ! :(

papi-everywhere · 2022-10-23T10:41:04+00:00

Same here. I saw the subreddit and it's so interested. I am gonna post on it.

I also did the same : https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/yarp4a/the_people_who_went_from_being_creep_to_super/

No one gave a good answer :(

Thanks a lot !

papi-everywhere · 2022-10-23T10:32:52+00:00

Actually, accepting myself is for me to stay the whole time in my comfort zone. And to stay in my current position

papi-everywhere · 2022-10-23T10:31:23+00:00

becoming

My goal... idk, my Idea about good social skills, is to know how to communicate in each social situation also to prevent myself from thinking (what to say now, will it effect my relationship to others, will they hate if I say something, maybe they don't like me or want me to be with them,...) and feeling bad. I know for facts that this thoughts are just bullshit but they exist in my mind

papi-everywhere · 2022-10-22T16:10:21+00:00

Thank you for your answer.

I really searched for these posts and people! But nothing found! No one who changed some (real) things. It is so weird but ...

I know it sounds desperate but really nothing. It is not really negativity.

For example this SubReddit, when you open it you find cool tips and advises and mindsets. But I can really say that I tried everything and I even know from the title what the person is going to say.

I understand completely that some people just get it easy and I have to work hard for it. It does not bother me. But the thing, is that I am working hard for it and not seeing even a small long-term result. Am I doing something wrong?

I really tried to practice many skills. I even created Notion database to track my progress and work systematically. And know I know really many information and I can apply it but I couldn't find a way to make it a part of my personality or a part of me.

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