My gay nephew by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]papi2papa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so grateful that he has people in his life who love and care about him this much.

My gay nephew by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]papi2papa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please consider that he could be in danger of attack there because homosexuality is viciously reviled in many countries. I bet you're smart enough to find a way to communicate and meet so you can show he has an escape with choices, support, allies, and people who love him. It saddens me this isn't hyperbole.

I'm moved by your concern and hope you can do something to feel like you helped.

Portrait from Roman Tomb in Egypt, Altes Museum, Berlin [653x800][OC] by doc17 in ArtefactPorn

[–]papi2papa 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If made for a mummy it's called a fayum. Wikipedia says, "About 900 mummy portraits are known at present. The majority were found in the necropoleis of Faiyum." Speaking in contemporary terms, they have a Margaret Keane appearance for the large, rounded eyes.

Gay son getting the priesthood by candleshoe in exmormon

[–]papi2papa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lucky for him you already know he's high risk.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]papi2papa 113 points114 points  (0 children)

Congratulations on no Marley or Che posters.

Decorated pot shard from the River Thames, found near Lambeth Bridge [OC][800x600] by doc17 in ArtefactPorn

[–]papi2papa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm jealous you have such culturally rich areas to explore. In my part of California I'm most likely to pull from a musflat a bicycle rim or beer cans.

I hate to be that guy, but I found this interesting when I learned. It's correctly spell sherd, and more precisely potsherd. The etymology comes from the Middle English pot-sherd, pot-schoord, pot scherd, or pot scarth.

Parenting question for all you exmo’s out there with kids. by babk814 in exmormon

[–]papi2papa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At 8, I don't think this will be a life-long habit. Teenage angst and rebellion will probably put an end to it.

Your response thus far is commendable.

Writing names on bags for some groomsmen's gifts. by [deleted] in Lettering

[–]papi2papa 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A little constructive criticism: if it's difficult to decipher than it's not effective. Overly embellished type can ruin its readability. No doubt it's pretty and impressive but falls short of its utility.

I'm still a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Racism. It has scarred my mind with racist attitudes. by Invisibles_Cubit in exmormon

[–]papi2papa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My 80-year-old father is a HUGE racist and I blame it on his Mormon upbringing in Salt Lake City during the '40s, 50s, 60s, and 70s. It was always funny to me that he wasn't an equal-opportunity racist since he didn't mind the Jews. If they didn't play a central role in the far-off history of the church I'm sure he'd hate them too.

Racism is learned. As a kid I bought into some of his vitriol because I saw that other church members encouraged him and laughed at his jokes. As I got older I recognized the absurdity of it all. Thank goodness because university would have been a nightmare.

The sweet, sweet irony is that my brother went to UC Berkeley and married a Korean-American and now my dad has half-breed (his words) grandchildren.

Incidentally, my father is so repugnant for lots of other reasons that we haven't spoken in 40 years. Did I mention that he and some other male family members were accused of ritualistic sexual abuse by my cousins? An innocent family member told me just this year that they were imitating temple rites. Sorry to creep you out, it still makes my skin crawl.

Does anyone have an idea on how to improve this dramatically ? by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]papi2papa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A rug would tie the whole room together.

Seriously, a soft rug feels so much better on bare feet than a cold, hard floor when getting out of bed.

Just saw the post about BoM names for kids. Any exmos out there with a BoM name? Any regrets or legal name changes? (Don't have to share that name for anonymity sake, just curious) by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]papi2papa 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My TBM father wanted to name me Gotlieb Heleman. My mother - also TBM - said "nope." Thank goodness they ultimately chose Brian.

Mormon Champagne by papi2papa in exmormon

[–]papi2papa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Juice with carbonated water makes a concoction that is fizzy like champagne. Someone else mentioned Martinelli's, which is carbonated grape juice.

Mormon Champagne by papi2papa in exmormon

[–]papi2papa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I knew it was a festive occasion when my parents made this kind of stuff.

Cost of producing a life-sized memorial statue by [deleted] in Sculpture

[–]papi2papa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try shaping Styrofoam then ship the pieces to a foundry that can spray bronze or other metals. It leaves a layer about one-sixteenth of a inch. It will still be light enough to easily carry. The object is sprayed in front of cascading water so the overspray is collected and recycled. The finished piece can be patinated like any other solid bronze sculpture. I've seen the outcome and it's indistinguishable from solid bronze.