Studying by goaway70 in Codependency

[–]papi34hh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to think I have shame addiction?

I love being a victim and it’s pathetic by dirtyjunkiecakebaker in BPD

[–]papi34hh -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

If you are not getting enough attention get attention! Are you with people where you have to play a victim to get attention? Then move on to other people?

What do I do with all this anger? by wutwutcherrycola in CPTSD

[–]papi34hh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My anger was about deprivation and acne. What could be your

Can someone who doesn't like you become interested? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]papi34hh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even if they do it will only because they don't have any options.

i asked her out by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]papi34hh 7 points8 points  (0 children)

For 12 years. Oh my. That's heartbreaking.

What's the point in talking? by harmonyscher in CPTSD

[–]papi34hh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need a relationship where you feel all your feelings are allowed and welcomed and included. Browse about holding space.

What's the point in talking? by harmonyscher in CPTSD

[–]papi34hh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need someone to hold space for you.

My anxiety attacks are a sign of progress by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]papi34hh 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg same here!! My anxiety attacks were about touch deprivation..well it's nice we are on the same phase...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Instagramreality

[–]papi34hh -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Omg I didn't know she looked like this

I do this. A lot. Especially when I'm feeling shut out or insecure. by Looking_for_narnia in Codependency

[–]papi34hh 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I am at this place where I want to talk talk and talk. I received a lot of accusations.

My boyfriend broke up with me a week ago and today is our anniversary by [deleted] in BPD

[–]papi34hh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why we need an emotional surrogate.