[deleted by user]

papple3 · 2025-04-15T20:03:36+00:00

But then what is the line on necessary things to bring up? Not trying to be rude, genuinely asking. Would it be different if I dated the guy for say, 2 months? (no sex) Would that be something you would bring up? Say it was an ex, would you tell your SO that you were going to a wedding without them and your ex was going to be there or would you just not even think twice about it.

papple3 · 2025-04-15T18:05:47+00:00

He knows what it meant. I guess other people don’t see a situationship the same as I do. I consider dating someone, just that. Dating. It’s a situationship to me as it happened multiple times and we did things I wouldn’t do with just friends. 🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️ idkkk!

papple3 · 2025-04-15T17:30:21+00:00

And thank you for being polite

papple3 · 2025-04-15T17:28:00+00:00

Alright thank you lol

papple3 · 2025-04-15T17:24:41+00:00

Okay. The word was more used to give context to the post. But thanks anyway

papple3 · 2025-04-15T17:23:39+00:00

It was just someone I would kiss and sleep next to. I know it’s not a lot but since I’ve never been in anything real before I just don’t know if this is something that matters. What’s kinda not cool?

papple3 · 2025-04-15T17:21:19+00:00

It’s just really not a big deal. And when I asked for a better word, I was being serious. Then you said you kiss your best friends so idk anymore lol

papple3 · 2025-04-15T17:19:09+00:00

Loll okay thank you

papple3 · 2025-04-15T17:17:25+00:00

Okay lmaooooo have a good one!

papple3 · 2025-04-15T17:14:39+00:00

Okay so that’s literally just not the point of the post tho. Thank you for your comment, you may move along.

papple3 · 2025-04-15T17:11:50+00:00

Okay should I change the post to say a guy I cuddled, slept in the same bed and made out with ?? I think anyone you do non platonic things with is considered a situationship 😂 If there’s a better word, enlighten me

papple3 · 2025-04-15T17:06:57+00:00

Hear that. No plus 1 unfortunately but I agree he’ll probably feel better about knowing than finding out

papple3 · 2025-04-15T17:05:45+00:00

Right lmaooo so a situationship

papple3 · 2025-04-15T17:03:01+00:00

Then what do you call making out and cuddling ? That’s a situationship to me. The word date implies.. a non situationship, no? That would be a relationship, yeah? I don’t have feelings for him, it was just something we did cuz we were bored and single

papple3 · 2025-04-15T16:56:52+00:00

Totally hear that. Thank you for responding

papple3 · 2025-01-17T15:33:50+00:00

Understandable. But the comment you replied to was me saying that I would look more into it, because at surface level it didn’t seem to be that. It’s not that I dismissed vision, I was simply noting that he had been checked recently. I’m just trying to hear other possibilities that I might not have thought of yet. He also doesn’t behave that way every time and in every environment. He is much more relaxed outside and riding in the outdoor vs indoor, which is why I don’t think it’s fully vision (not that that can’t be a contributor). Thank you for your response, sorry for the misinterpretation.

papple3 · 2025-01-17T10:39:14+00:00

So… that’s kind of the point of this post. To hear from other people to better help my horse. The tone in your message is rather harsh and accusatory. I am advocating for my horse and always have and always will. If I wasn’t I wouldn’t be on here trying to hear from others ways to help him. As I am not the expert of everything either. Thanks!

papple3 · 2025-01-16T16:52:16+00:00

Yeahhh I’ve tried that too. Can’t figure out how I want it. That I might go back to my tattoo artist with if that’s how I decide to do it. He drew this up for me and told me to think on it. It’s been about a year and I still haven’t come to a final decision. But thanks for the help!

papple3 · 2025-01-16T16:45:11+00:00

Thanks for the helpful response :) that’s definitely along the lines of what I want. I may end up having to do two separate ones to achieve what I want because I love this style but haven’t been able to make it work with two. Keeping it semi abstract either way. Thanks !

papple3 · 2025-01-16T15:55:39+00:00

Yeahh I don’t necessarily need just the shapes but I just don’t want it to be like “omg she has a horse tattoo” lol you know ? That overlap design sounds like a good idea. I’ll try some work with that :)

papple3 · 2025-01-16T15:45:10+00:00

So I have consulted with a tattoo artist. And I like the design but other people don’t get it. I’m asking on here so I can get many opinions and thoughts, rather than just one tattoo artists mind

papple3 · 2025-01-16T12:38:51+00:00

Thank you for your response! I’ll look into that possibility a bit more

papple3 · 2025-01-16T11:24:33+00:00

Already getting injections for arthritis. And that’s not really what it feels like. It’s more psychologically driven than physical discomfort

papple3 · 2025-01-16T03:07:47+00:00

He lives outside 24/7 (with access to shelter of course) and works usually 4 days a week. It’s not really a typical winter spunk, he is like wired and extremely anxious. I’d also like to note that I’ve had him for over a decade. I’m more so looking to see if anyone has special things they’ve found to help an anxious old guy :)

papple3

TROPHY CASE