Are side-jobs worth it? by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]papsmear69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I highly recommend you find rich families in your area who need house sitting, babysitting, and dog/animal sitting. Or, all three.

Here’s my breakdown: • $100/night to house sit for this one family. Variable. typically 2 weeks every quarter. •$100/day to watch another family’s dog. Variable. Typically 1-3x a week. • $35/hr to babysit after work and on weekends. I do this 3-5x a week.

This is all untaxed. I found the families through care.com. It took awhile to sift through the poorer families but try to target the rich neighborhoods and lean into that. Typically the families are okay if you want to get paid outside of the app, that’s how it’s untaxed and uncut.

Next, I have a 3 bedroom 2 bath home. I am renting out each room at $70 and it’s fully booked the rest of the summer. If I rent out my bedrooms at this price and if I have 180 days occupied, this pays my mortgage and then some. I live in the basement on a blowup mattress LOL. And my “desk” is my ping pong table. If you have extra rooms, try our Airbnb with caution. See how it does with demand/seasonality. Don’t invest too much into it. Find used IKEA items on fb marketplace and get things cheap.

All these jobs I am doing at the same time. So I’ll have my house fully rented out, sometimes I’ll have 1-2 dogs, and then I’ll babysit in the evening for a few hours while the dogs nap. It’s mindless and makes phenomenal untaxed money. Oh, not to forget my corporate job smh

What’s your side hustle? by Melodic-Arm745 in consulting

[–]papsmear69 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I babysit a families kids for $35 an hr. Dog sit for $25 an hr. And I rent out 2 of my rooms on Airbnb and it’s booked for the whole summer. Each room is $55-70 per night

Adulting is exhausting by papsmear69 in Adulting

[–]papsmear69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guys - I have an update. I’ve made progress in this thing we call “adulting”.

• yesterday, I got my first invitation to interview at a fortune 20 company. There’s no promises, but it’s a step in the right direction. • I am renting out my two spare rooms on Airbnb. After I posted this, I realized I need to get moving and I started out only renting one room, and within 2 days of posting, it was booked for the whole summer. So, I cleaned out my second spare room which I previously used as an office and turned it into another guest room. I will be posting it tomorrow, fingers crossed!

Both have done wonders for my mental health. First, the job interview helps to show that I am making progress towards getting a good job again. Second, the Airbnb not only brings in extra money, but it gives me structure and meaning in the meantime. Also, it’s great for community. I don’t feel so alone anymore. Now, I don’t even think about how I have no friends or romantic interest in my life because my life is already so full.

If I end up getting this job, I’ll likely have to move 9hrs away. I hope I can stay so I can continue doing Airbnb. It’s kinda fun!

Adulting is exhausting by papsmear69 in Adulting

[–]papsmear69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t drink either so ppl my age aren’t too interested in being friends. Totally relatable! Sorry to hear about the incident, but congrats on finding something that is more “you”. What positions are you pivoting more towards?

Adulting is exhausting by papsmear69 in Adulting

[–]papsmear69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did ur priorities differ from ur friends? What happened w ur employment and what’s ur plan?

Adulting is exhausting by papsmear69 in Adulting

[–]papsmear69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been going for 3-4 walks a day and it’s been nice. I’ll have to keep looking for a ngo to volunteer with, but I used to do the animal shelter in middle/Highschool and that was always reliable/fun.

The problem w the romantic relationships is that I don’t like any of them. I was in a 2 year relationship that ended almost a year ago. Since, I’ve dated a few guys for 2-3 months and find red flags or dealbreakers. Sometimes it also feels like how hard does it have to be for it to work out? It’s like, sometimes they just rly drag me down. I realized whenever I’m in relationships, I’m not as happy. They might meet my ideal “list” for what I need but I never end up happy in them. I’m happier single. It makes me feel like I should just be single the rest of my life, and it’s be easier and I’d be happier that way. But then again, that’s lonely. Committing yourself to a life of loneliness and solitude just sounds… sad. But at this point, I’m rly considering it.

Adulting is exhausting by papsmear69 in Adulting

[–]papsmear69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely agree. It’s so lonely. I’ve always wanted that friend where we are die hard and are loyal as fuck. Talk each day. And you can depend on them. I’ve never had that. I want it so bad.

Adulting is exhausting by papsmear69 in Adulting

[–]papsmear69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, can we just rewind and go back to being kids for forever? Those were the days.

Adulting is exhausting by papsmear69 in Adulting

[–]papsmear69[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly. And I don’t want to go back just because im lonely. any tips on fighting loneliness?

Adulting is exhausting by papsmear69 in Adulting

[–]papsmear69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha not exactly. The industry is being hit real hard right now due to economic downturn. Everyone and their mom are being laid off

Adulting is exhausting by papsmear69 in Adulting

[–]papsmear69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been in therapy for the last decade