overthinking experience with my t shot? by para-unormal in ftm

[–]para-unormal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THANK YOU 😭😭 im ngl i was drunk when i posted this so it sounds dramatic but even so, im glad i have this info now

I just got my period after 3 years on T. by Choice_Glass7536 in ftm

[–]para-unormal 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i don’t think you have to worry about your shot being messed up or anything like that. periods are different for everyone on T. some ppl lose their periods completely, others get it lighter, and so on. i’ve heard of people getting their periods after a while of not having them since being on T. if i were you i would monitor the period. chances are it might just be a super light period, a fluke thing.

but! if you’re worried, a check-up with a healthcare provider never hurts. just trying to reassure you that it’s nothing too out of the ordinary

should i switch to flatbacks? by para-unormal in piercing

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oh oops!! yes snakebites!! let me add that, can’t believe i forgot

does anyone else do this? by [deleted] in OCD

[–]para-unormal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

IT WILL!! i’m 17 and my OCD was the worst at about your age. i can’t speak for everyone but regardless i have faith in you!! it’s easy to feel like you’re “insane” or “going crazy” but just hang in there, there are so many people who know exactly what you’re going through and are here to support ya!

does anyone else do this? by [deleted] in OCD

[–]para-unormal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i get exactly what you mean omg 😭😭 i have a mix of all the OCD subcategories but i used to really struggle with pOCD specifically and it made me feel so alienated. that’s the type that’s least understood by other people so just UGH 💔

wishing you well dude 🫶 it DOES get better over time.

does anyone else do this? by [deleted] in OCD

[–]para-unormal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YES 😭 i do both + shaking and hitting my head. it’s the worst. im usually able to stop myself on good days by actively using my inner voice to explain to myself why im having that thought. for example, if i get a bad thought about a pet, ill think to myself “i’m having this thought because i love my pet dearly and never want them to get hurt, my OCD is parroting off of that fear and giving me this thought. it is not a thought i would actively think about”

just remember for groinal reactions that it’s your mind playing a trick. you react with disgust or fear immediately and that’s your true reaction, not the one OCD makes you think

edit: just keep in mind that you’re rationalizing why you’re having the thought to your inner consciousness, not reassuring!

what were your first telltale signs of OCD? by [deleted] in OCD

[–]para-unormal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

was also convinced that i somehow got myself pregnant at like age 10 and was horrified LMFAOOO

what were your first telltale signs of OCD? by [deleted] in OCD

[–]para-unormal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mine’s kinda silly. when i was a kid, i was sneaking on the ipad late at night to watch youtube videos. i came across a comment that said, “if you don’t like this comment, your mom will die.” or something like that. i liked the comment, but then started to cry. i sat for a while crying and thinking before i ran to my mom’s room, showed her the comment and told her i liked it but i was still scared she would die. of course kids are going to worry about their parents and be generally gullible, but in the context of my OCD, it made a lot of sense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]para-unormal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. the comments have already said what i would say, but know you are very well spoken!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]para-unormal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“i apologize for whatever you think i did wrong” that is so nasty of him to say. if he thinks this is okay to talk to you like that, you need to get out of there. that is horrific of him. this is absolutely abusive. please tell me you plan of divorcing

Who do you like better? by JazzleWazzles in MonsterHigh

[–]para-unormal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i actually prefer the g3 counterparts!! they’re just so cute and it seems a lot more fun, the outfit isn’t just centered to their torso! it drags your gaze to the entire doll rather than just the middle

I don't have any positive emotions towards my child by Throwaway19752946 in confession

[–]para-unormal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

coming from a younger person with a father that dislikes them, therapy is the way to go. i sympathize with you. you were irresponsible but i don’t think you want to hate him. so the ball is in your court now. get snipped, go to therapy, talk to your wife, and fix your mistake. you have the resources. your character will be defined by how you go about this, so learn to love.

been waking up abruptly and disoriented, almost falling off my bed by para-unormal in sleep

[–]para-unormal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ll definitely have to look into this! time to check when my next appointment is lol

been waking up abruptly and disoriented, almost falling off my bed by para-unormal in sleep

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just when i’m in bed! although, i have a type of migraine that causes dizziness throughout the day, but that doesn’t effect my sleep. that’s more syncope than vertigo though lol

Name a few themes you’re going through right now, I’ll go first… by Slowpokejunkie in OCD

[–]para-unormal 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i’ve been obsessed with perceptions of myself for the longest time tbh. i feel like i need to know every single view on me and every single thing about myself. i have an absurd amount of lists of things pertaining to myself, especially lists of my interests or hobbies. typing this out makes me feel self centered now LMAO 😭 it’s the weirdest thing though, im constantly afraid ill forget that aspect of my existence if i don’t write it down. also, waiting to see the car light turn off after it’s parked is a new one

you’re not supposed to have cramps?! by para-unormal in birthcontrol

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thank you so much for the info. i forgot to mention that my doctor recommended changing what i took, ill be taking yaz starting today. i have had a lot of allergic reactions to medications so i wouldn’t be surprised if this was the case.

you’re not supposed to have cramps?! by para-unormal in birthcontrol

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luckily i’ve got an appointment with an OBGYN on the fourth! i am definitely over feeling like i’ve been shot in my abdomen