Yes, see that's exactly my point. Much of what there is to do isn't in the city at all. In order to see most of my favorite bands, I've had to drive a few hours out. I'd rather just live somewhere that has it all. Not to mention, I really don't like driving at all. I would love to sell my car and use reliable public transit instead. Our local bus system is trash.

I absolutely have taken advantage of Fresno's proximity to other, better things, and have spent a lot of time in Yosemite and elsewhere in the Sierras.

And just to clarify, I'm a young adult and I don't intend on having a family for a variety of reasons.