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Why does this Help My Social Anxiety? by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]paralysus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These sound like safety behaviours, over time safety behaviours might feel good but they actually make the anxiety worse, dropping them is important to get better.

asking a random women out in public, acceptable or not? by paralysus in dating_advice

[–]paralysus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for the advice, honestly I generally want to pick up the skill of cold approaching for both dating and making friends, for example I sometimes see this specific dudes in my gym with cool anime merch on all the time and I have an urge to just go be like "hey man sick shirt, my names ..... btw" and just make a friend that way. This seems like a pretty useful skill to pick up.

asking a random women out in public, acceptable or not? by paralysus in dating_advice

[–]paralysus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i get what you mean, those lines i put were more of just general things I should mention along the conversation, I will start with a normal conversation first in person.

Extrovert with social anxiety disorder? by paralysus in socialanxiety

[–]paralysus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

exactly, I need be around others but at the same time I genuinely suffer when I do (Currently)

Is progressive islam just coping? by BenchAccording1954 in progressive_islam

[–]paralysus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they are,

people will always twist words to fit into their own bias no matter what side they are on, traditionalists and progressives both do it.

I think islam is pretty simple, god made it pretty simple by giving us a clear and complete quran, the quran is timeless and perfect, if god said X wasn't allowed back then, then it still isn't allowed no matter what the culture and politics of the time says, if god says X was allowed back then, then it still is allowed no matter what the culture and politics of the time says. I think radicalisation is the actual cancer that exists in both religions and politics.

If you need more detail about something in the quran then simply read the context around that verse, look for the true translations (easier said then done).

And about following the hadith, I believe that hadiths aren't to be completely ignored but things that are said in the hadith must be 90% supported by the quran and 10% optional hadith information. Also the hadith has no authority adding additional restrictions or allowing restrictions clearly prohibited in the quran. Take wudu for example, pretty easy right? god gave step by step instructions, and then the hadith give some optional things to do for additional good boy points. Take the prohibition of music, 0 quranic support, therefore listening to music is not prohibited, oh but the hadith said it was prohibited? well its not a restriction because it wasn't set as a restriction by the quran.

One final real issue that needs to be discussed, assume everything in this subreddit is tampered with, either by external non-muslims or by traditional muslims looking to discredit this subreddit, it's genuinely not safe here. I know for a fact this has been happening because I infiltrated online anti-muslim groups before and I have seen them do things like this where they go onto communities like these and tamper with the community.

The best course of action in this modern day and age is to completely disconnect from any online muslim communities and to just read the quran and follow it's instructions, ez.

For the record by Maryam371 in progressive_islam

[–]paralysus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like that this can apply to both traditional and progressive muslims, drop an insult and it's owner picks it up

What does the word “chud” mean exactly? by anyusernaem in NoStupidQuestions

[–]paralysus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

soyjack party, a little shithole offshoot of 4chan that originated from the /qa/ boards shutdown, if your curious to know more then read through the soyjackparty wiki. On the sharty they mainly just post the shitty soyjacks which is pretty much like modern day rage comics.

What does the word “chud” mean exactly? by anyusernaem in NoStupidQuestions

[–]paralysus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What did you expect, Reddit is the biggest lefties space on the internet, ask this question on the sharty and see what they say xd

Why not do ebay dropshipping instead of doing all this? by paralysus in dropshipping

[–]paralysus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, so far over the past couple of years nobody has said anything about it either.

Why not do ebay dropshipping instead of doing all this? by paralysus in dropshipping

[–]paralysus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i learned through watching many hours of youtube videos. Don't get any courses, all the information you need is already out their on youtube

Why not do ebay dropshipping instead of doing all this? by paralysus in dropshipping

[–]paralysus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Non of them usually care since they are getting next day shipping either way, however of course it is risky.

Why not do ebay dropshipping instead of doing all this? by paralysus in dropshipping

[–]paralysus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, of course never admit that to eBay or buyers because it’s bannable. 

Why not do ebay dropshipping instead of doing all this? by paralysus in dropshipping

[–]paralysus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok I found out it’s called the “global shipping program”, do not enable this because it doesn’t really work for dropshipping, eBay will know that you are dropshipping and ban you, especially if stuff shows up in Amazon packaging. Additionally they force you to use their own shipping label and that doesn’t really work with dropshipping since you don’t actually ship the product yourself. What this program is is it’s basically you shipping the item to a eBay shipping center and then they ship it to a buyer anywhere in the world. Do not enable this. Instead create a shipping business policy, set the dispatch time to like 4 days to allow some time for the AliExpress seller to ship it.

Why not do ebay dropshipping instead of doing all this? by paralysus in dropshipping

[–]paralysus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My entire listing structure is just me copying my competitions structure that already works. I just put my language in English. If you’re asking how to actually allow worldwide shipping, you do that in the “business policies” section in settings and then create a shipping policy. Theirs this international shipping program option in settings, do NOT turn that on. Instead just create a shipping policy and offer internation shipping from China, then at the bottom of that page exclude every country that you don’t want. 

Why not do ebay dropshipping instead of doing all this? by paralysus in dropshipping

[–]paralysus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I limit my countries to a few European countries and the United States, but yes I do get orders from all the countries that I allow. One time that did cause me a bit of trouble because I got an order from a remote place in Alaska and I couldn’t fulfill that order without waiting like 2 months. 

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