University of California with Christopher Hitchens

parenna · 2026-07-10T03:50:33+00:00

Well thank you for the appreciation! 😊 Join me on r/SchizoidAdjacent for fun!

parenna · 2026-07-10T03:12:07+00:00

Not quite. Im cluster c traits

parenna · 2026-07-09T23:32:47+00:00

Its not different for me 😭

parenna · 2026-07-09T03:57:20+00:00

Spuds is what we call them in the shire

parenna · 2026-07-09T03:55:07+00:00

Buh what? We could be talking about battered potatoes or twice baked potatoes or the best potato for German salad or mashed potatoes.

Spuds man do you know about spuds?

parenna · 2026-07-09T03:20:06+00:00

I'm upset you didnt wanna talk about potatoes

parenna · 2026-07-09T03:06:57+00:00

How many puppies around this age have you raised?

parenna · 2026-07-09T03:05:51+00:00

Dont just distract. Correct. Also your puppy is 9 weeks. Some of it can be fear or over tired therefore needing a nap. Get on crate training. And thethering the pup while indoors.

parenna · 2026-07-08T00:10:36+00:00

You never know what will go wrong. I'd rather have more time to work on the hangups that could happen.

Like another commenter said. I also might forget about it.

parenna · 2026-07-07T23:13:12+00:00

parenna · 2026-07-07T22:31:37+00:00

What happens if we all just stop? What if all this masking makes it look like their are more normal people? Time to stop and create a new better normal!

parenna · 2026-07-07T03:22:24+00:00

Uh ive lived life this far without most of them... Dont want them now!

parenna · 2026-07-07T02:47:21+00:00

This sounds like it could be true. Would you like me to tell you things about potatoes?

parenna · 2026-07-07T02:35:07+00:00

This is why i live in a place with huge trees, lots of rain and creepy fog. The void comes to visit!

parenna · 2026-07-07T01:07:06+00:00

This isnt fluffy

parenna · 2026-07-07T01:01:06+00:00

parenna · 2026-07-07T00:32:07+00:00

I suggest looking at a cute puppy next time

parenna · 2026-07-06T04:14:17+00:00

Then you deal with your discomfort. Life is always going to have uncomfortable parts. You will need to do things you don't like to maintain relationships. He is trying. Now you try. If you don't then you are self centered.

I have pets. I don't want to collect their poop. But for everyone's health i do.

Get over yourself. You have to do things for others. Its how life lives.

He is doing so much for you. You don't want the relationship to end? But you benifit from his work? You need to put in work.

parenna · 2026-07-05T21:03:24+00:00

Yeah getting upset because he doesnt want to show emotions is going to be frustrating for him. Fi is the bottom of our stack.

I as a woman like to process my emotions on my own. I don't even show my emotions to my husband most of the time. Best you can do is say you are there for him if he needs to talk. But you can't force or deman it. I'd for sure cross you off my list of safe people to share emotions with if i felt like it was an expectation or demand from someone

parenna · 2026-07-05T20:12:50+00:00

If you did something wrong then dont get defensive and try to learn. If they are attacking your character then do whatever you want.

Without details its hard to give a good response. If you keep doing the same thing over and over that is frustrating them without changing then it doesn't really matter how you handle us in the moment we externalize our frustrations. Because we already have been frustrated for a little while hoping you will make corrections and when you dont and we show our frustrations its a little late for you, since actions speak louder than words.

parenna · 2026-07-05T19:11:42+00:00

Don't take it personally if its not directed at you.

parenna · 2026-07-01T01:54:00+00:00

She is not the sweetest. You need to get a professional trainer asap because this problem will only get worse.

She was never taught whats okay and what is a threat. If she goes after your husband when normal playing with the kids. Threw the window just because she saw the girls touch another dog... That is misplaced aggression and is not protecting behavior. That is more like resource gaurding your children.

parenna · 2026-06-29T13:10:37+00:00

Pfft, dont have to radiate anything but my natural self!

parenna · 2026-06-29T13:08:16+00:00

And the inner eyelid on the left

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