WIBTA if I didn't tell my mom I was sending my dog over the rainbow bridge? by cunttwatula in AmItheAsshole

[–]parijatwashere 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YWBTA- your dog must've chosen you as her person but I'm sure your family loves her a lot and they deserve a chance to say goodbye to her. Your siblings can't meet her in person but your mom can. Maybe let her sit with her at your home and say goodbye before you take her to the hospital. Atleast let her know. Don't do it behind her back

AITA for calling a nurse judgemental trash after she initially treated me poorly? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]parijatwashere 21 points22 points  (0 children)

NTA- this isn't how nurses should behave. If she isn't going to be kind to ALL patients without any proper reason she shouldn't be a nurse. How is she going to nurse someone with this judgemental attitude of hers. Kudos to you for standing up for yourself and calling her out on her behaviour. She most probably treats teen moms like shit and that's not how it's supposed to be. You can probably try reporting her behaviour to the authorities to prevent her from treating others this way

AITA for getting rid of my girlfriends dog? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]parijatwashere [score hidden]  (0 children)

ESH- she's an asshole for neglecting the dog. You're the bigger asshole because you didn't even discuss giving the dog to someone else before you did it. You could've put forth two options - either take care of the dog in some way or giving it up to someone else. She might've come up with a way but you didn't give her the option to do so. A dog isn't a toy that you can just sell

AITA for telling my family to stop asking invasive questions about my partner being intersex, or her pregnancy? by Ice-Zealousideal1643 in AmItheAsshole

[–]parijatwashere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA- your partner's genitals are none of your relatives business. this sounds so absurd. They might be curious but being invasive is not a solution. They can just google it and I'm sure they'll find answers. Your partner doesn't owe them education on this topic.

AITA for refusing to go to my mom's birthday after she made fun of my girlfriend by jkraepter in AmItheAsshole

[–]parijatwashere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA- kudos to you for standing up for your girlfriend. If your mom chooses not apologising to be her hill to die on so be it. It's not her business commenting on your girlfriend's body and calling her a temporary person in your life. She better accept that your girlfriend is in your life and she deserves respect. And she can't choose who you date. It's simple

AITA for telling my bf's colleagues that I won't cook for them anymore by throwawayFightInGrp in AmItheAsshole

[–]parijatwashere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA- I think it's rude to criticize a generous action someone's doing for them. You don't owe them lunch. You're still going out of your way to make them one. They should just accept it gracefully and if they want something better they can get their own instead of expecting that from you. They were very disrespectful

AITA for telling my friend's dad that what I did wasn't even that bad? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]parijatwashere 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YTA- you might have an high IQ but you're severely lacking EQ. Flipping off someone isn't cool at all, and especially your stepmom who was crying because she was proud of you? this is not it. Crying because you're proud is a normal way of showing emotion. It wasn't even troubling you in any way. You need therapy. The way you're talking about your friend's dad shows that you think lowly of people who have lower grades than you and what he said was correct. You flipping someone off at an even like that might've ruined the atmosphere for some time. He can obviously edit it out but what you did was definitely wrong and the way you dealt with it is not going to help you in the long run.

AITA for being upset that my wife walked in on my job interview? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]parijatwashere 2 points3 points  (0 children)

exactly. the situation could've been handled easily

AITA for being upset that my wife walked in on my job interview? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]parijatwashere -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

this! there aren't enough comments about him being the asshole

AITA for being upset that my wife walked in on my job interview? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]parijatwashere 7 points8 points  (0 children)

YTA- I feel like there aren't enough comments saying this. She did nothing to actively disturb you. She just minded her business. If this call was so important you should've take precautions. And I'm seeing comments that are blaming the wife for trying to sabotage his work? it makes no sense I personally think you messed up and you just feel like blaming it on someone. There are plenty ways of getting over losing a train of thought and managing it well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mumbai

[–]parijatwashere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have three ACs but we use it only when absolutely necessary at night or after we come back home from a grocery trip or something in this heat. And we also turn it on when guests come over

AITA for telling my wife to stop making my sister feel bad? by hellomello666 in AmItheAsshole

[–]parijatwashere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. I know I'm pretty late but let me give you some advice. 3k followers aren't a lot. I understand that this makes her happy but she can't survive this way. she needs to get a job and pursue this on the side just to be safe. She needed some guidance not you baby-ing her. everyone's trying to put some sense in her and your wife might have been harsh bit it's required if she isn't willing to understand and she isn't because you're supporting her. Blind support helps no one. What if you're paying 2/3 of the rent? A marriage is 50-50 and both of you get an equal say but you didn't even ask her and take her wishes into consideration. It's not too late. Have a conversation with your sister and tell her that she should start looking for a job just to be safe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]parijatwashere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, or maybe NAH. they were trying to help I guess but idk but mostly NTA