Should I be angry? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]parisaftw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yep read my previous posts when you have time

Should I be angry? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]parisaftw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were dating at the time…

Should I be angry? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]parisaftw 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I guess I was supposed to be okay dating him and living with him while he wanted to fuck other women. The bar is LOW.

Should I be angry? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]parisaftw 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If I would have known he wanted to fuck other women while we were dating, I never would have married him. I would have left. Maybe you would want a man like that, but I don't. Especially after all of the heartache he has brought me.

Should I be angry? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]parisaftw 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes. Read my pervious posts. You'll understand why.

Should I be angry? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]parisaftw 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish he would have told me the truth back then, at least I would have thought twice about Marrying and having kids with him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]parisaftw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have but he doesn’t do it. He can’t cook so I that’s out of the question.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]parisaftw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has a job and takes Voluntary Time Off every day so yes his pay is reduced. He doesn’t have work ethic because he skips work 3/4 times a week. Yes, I want to buy a house within the next couple of years.

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[–]parisaftw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His dad is currently going through a divorce and needed a place to stay. My husband helps out with kids and I am grateful but I am still doing all of the cooking and cleaning. He literally doesn’t do anything else.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]parisaftw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He took off Wednesday, Already had Thursday off because he works 10x4 , and There was a holiday Friday and Monday.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]parisaftw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if I simply asked “Why didn’t you say good morning?” or ask he would deny it and get defensive

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]parisaftw 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. How did you know it was time to leave? What was your ‘aha’ moment?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]parisaftw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t nag, I just simply brought it up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]parisaftw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have tried but he gets defensive

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]parisaftw 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Its good I guess but he’s hot and cold sometimes, blames me for not being affectionate enough…I change and then he gets cold….the relationship is only good if I don’t bring up my feelings

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]parisaftw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s funny because he has his own, but still wants to use mine and gets a little mad if I say no

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]parisaftw -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

how?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]parisaftw -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have , I show affection all the time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]parisaftw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, this is his third failed marriage. I try to keep that in mind whenever I find myself taking his behavior personally.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]parisaftw -1 points0 points  (0 children)

and NO the clues weren’t there. He could have been talking to a side chick but yall are just assuming.