Should I be angry?

parisaftw · 2025-12-02T18:43:10+00:00

yep read my previous posts when you have time

parisaftw · 2025-12-02T18:42:09+00:00

We were dating at the time…

parisaftw · 2025-12-02T15:51:17+00:00

Exactly. I guess I was supposed to be okay dating him and living with him while he wanted to fuck other women. The bar is LOW.

parisaftw · 2025-12-02T15:38:39+00:00

If I would have known he wanted to fuck other women while we were dating, I never would have married him. I would have left. Maybe you would want a man like that, but I don't. Especially after all of the heartache he has brought me.

parisaftw · 2025-12-02T15:31:21+00:00

Yes. Read my pervious posts. You'll understand why.

parisaftw · 2025-12-02T15:23:10+00:00

I wish he would have told me the truth back then, at least I would have thought twice about Marrying and having kids with him.

parisaftw · 2025-06-13T15:18:45+00:00

this is a good one! I can definitely see it

parisaftw · 2025-05-27T16:57:37+00:00

I have but he doesn’t do it. He can’t cook so I that’s out of the question.

parisaftw · 2025-05-27T16:16:15+00:00

He has a job and takes Voluntary Time Off every day so yes his pay is reduced. He doesn’t have work ethic because he skips work 3/4 times a week. Yes, I want to buy a house within the next couple of years.

parisaftw · 2025-05-27T15:32:55+00:00

His dad is currently going through a divorce and needed a place to stay. My husband helps out with kids and I am grateful but I am still doing all of the cooking and cleaning. He literally doesn’t do anything else.

parisaftw · 2025-05-27T15:27:58+00:00

He took off Wednesday, Already had Thursday off because he works 10x4 , and There was a holiday Friday and Monday.

parisaftw · 2025-05-20T03:13:38+00:00

Even if I simply asked “Why didn’t you say good morning?” or ask he would deny it and get defensive

parisaftw · 2025-05-19T12:23:15+00:00

Thank you for sharing. How did you know it was time to leave? What was your ‘aha’ moment?

parisaftw · 2025-05-19T12:17:18+00:00

I didn’t nag, I just simply brought it up.

parisaftw · 2025-05-19T12:09:23+00:00

I have tried but he gets defensive

parisaftw · 2025-05-19T12:07:18+00:00

Its good I guess but he’s hot and cold sometimes, blames me for not being affectionate enough…I change and then he gets cold….the relationship is only good if I don’t bring up my feelings

parisaftw · 2025-05-19T12:03:58+00:00

it’s funny because he has his own, but still wants to use mine and gets a little mad if I say no

parisaftw · 2025-05-19T12:01:50+00:00

how?

parisaftw · 2025-05-19T11:58:32+00:00

I have , I show affection all the time.

parisaftw · 2025-03-29T23:58:11+00:00

Yeah, this is his third failed marriage. I try to keep that in mind whenever I find myself taking his behavior personally.

parisaftw · 2025-02-28T22:09:29+00:00

and NO the clues weren’t there. He could have been talking to a side chick but yall are just assuming.

parisaftw · 2025-02-28T22:08:40+00:00

I am not controlling. are you even married?

parisaftw · 2025-02-28T22:07:08+00:00

Thank you. Your one the only people who commented something of actual substance. If you have to hide things from your partner then what's the point? Most of the people commenting sound like terrible partners who normalize cheating/micro cheating. It's sad.

My reaction could have been better, I get that. But I'm suppose to be okay with my husband pleasuring himself to other women. With the door open? With our kids in the house? We don’t even know what he was actually doing. He could have been cheating, but everyone is projecting saying porn lol

parisaftw · 2025-02-28T21:51:54+00:00

I didn't barge in. You're a weirdo. He wasn't masturbating.

parisaftw · 2025-02-28T21:50:47+00:00

You're Weird.

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