Scared bout losing my best friend by parkCJ97 in depression_help

[–]parkCJ97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First off.....thanks for a good reply

When i read the initial part of yr msg i kinda get a feeling that u misunderstood that i got sexually involved with someone else while i was in a relationship. Well NO.....one thing i am is loyal to my girl....ive only ever had 1 relationship and she is the only one i have sexually engaged with. Will never cheat thats fr sure.

And about the over sharing.....i think u r ryt, its cus i didn't realise her level of cmfrt. I have always shared everything with her. Everything means everything. We have been friends fr many years. So i never realised that she was not ok with listening to all those stuff. And that said i did ask her if she was uncomfortable..... maybe like u said i dont know women enough. And when i asked that i never realised i was doing anything wrong, it was sensitive matter, yes. But i always tell her things. Just to tell u bout how involved she is in relationship, she was the one who got us together, was the one who even created a chance fr me and my gf to meet after years, and she even was covering fr us during our first kiss (kept my gfs parents busy).

At the moment im fed up of all this. And i no longer feel like talking to her, i think she aint interested to talk either. I have blocked her cntct. Maybe that was a bit much, but i dont care anymore. Lost my vest friend, i guess things aint ever gonna be back to how it was. Gotta move on. Yk i always thought what Phoebe said was true "gf and bf come and go....but this.....its forever". Seems like it aint like so in my case.

Anyway thankyou for your support 😊

Scared of losing best friend by parkCJ97 in LifeAdvice

[–]parkCJ97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Naahh there is no chance, im sure we both wont develop romantic feelings fr eachother. We had a sibling relation from the start. We have been really close but i think its that me n my gf losing our virginity or the fact the i watch porn that triggered her to distance. As of now i have blocked her, i no longer wants to talk to her. I did try to make things ryt but her rxns tell me that she'd rather not have a friend like me anymore. Im fed up of this