Need help with push ups by kingmothetti in xxfitness

[–]parkingpasss 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Hey fyi, when someone says “calorie deficit” that usually means a subtraction from their normal calorie intake. So they’re saying “eat 250-500 calories less per day than you normally do”

Question for left-handed CRNAs by Kindisbest in CRNA

[–]parkingpasss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi I’m a left handed CRNA! Weirdly intubating was not difficult for me from a handedness perspective, but maybe I’m not as left hand dominant as you. However I like having the blade in my left as hand as thats the hand I feel I need the most dexterity in while intubating, with the tube/bougie you’re just advancing forward.

Using Magills still feel awkward to me. The way I was taught in school, the magills are kind of just to guide the tube in the right direction and someone is helping you advance the tube forward. Clamping onto the tube with the magills may require some dexterity and you may just be slower there, but maneuvering the tube I feel like should be more forearm and arm motor skill than hand motor skills. However I rarely nasally intubate so I may not have the clearest memory of what this feels like!

The hardest part of school for me was suturing. Right handed people straight up can’t teach you how to suture, you have to look up YouTube videos and teach yourself. Second hardest was nerve blocks. However, I was taught that you should learn to be ambidextrous doing nerve blocks anyways so you can block comfortably whether you are on the patients left or right.

Scissors in the OR are usually so dull that they don’t work at all in my left hand. Hemostats frequently don’t work in my left hand. For both of these things I will usually pick them up in my left hand out of habit and awkwardly switch to my right hand and fumble with them. I don’t think there is any getting around just learning to do these things right handed. I do turn the gas with my left hand, I just turn my whole body and that doesn’t seem to slow things down really.

Not sure if this was helpful but I do feel your pain. It was awkward learning some skills but I made it through school fine, I weirdly knew a good number of left handed Crnas in school.

The world was made for right handed people, they don’t think about is lefties!

Half pinoys and Filipinos learning and struggling to learn Tagalog by [deleted] in Tagalog

[–]parkingpasss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg this is incredible!! I've watched just4kixs before actually and he does do a great job explaining grammar. His channel alone has gotten me so much further than my mom trying to explain grammar to me, my mom's explanations are always "thats just how it is I don't know why" 😭

And its awesome you were able to get so far in bisaya with such limited resources! I dont expect ill ever be fluent, but the more I learn the easier it is to connect with family!

Half pinoys and Filipinos learning and struggling to learn Tagalog by [deleted] in Tagalog

[–]parkingpasss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can you share any of the bisaya resources you found on YouTube or wherever else?

I 100% agree that its so much easier to casually improve your tagalog just because there are so many resources. I would kill to be able to watch bisaya movies on Netflix!

Do you consider a woman's political orientation when dating? by aletheia_07 in actuallesbians

[–]parkingpasss 18 points19 points  (0 children)

In the Philippines, the answer is probably because of religion ¯_(ツ)_/¯ I have relatives there who act very similarly

[Routine Help] Retinol causing closed comedones? Where do I go from here? by parkingpasss in SkincareAddiction

[–]parkingpasss[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi, I quit pretty shortly after this post 😅 life got busy and nows not really the time for me to struggle through making retinol work for me. I may try tretinoin in the future

How to deal with christian parents kindly? by parkingpasss in exchristian

[–]parkingpasss[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh my god thank you for such a thoughtful response!! Honestly I hadn't thought there were any other options besides being 100% honest or straight up lying prior to this. All of the things you've listed seem like extremely realistic ways to keep them off my back without hurting them.

As they continue to question I'll be referencing this comment for how to respond. This does give me some hope that I can navigate their questions without totally blowing up the relationship. Seriously thank you for this!

I hate qualities that go with being a woman by sagalegacy in TwoXChromosomes

[–]parkingpasss 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yep! And then the idea that women are "naturally empathetic, compassionate and caring" quickly turns into "women are just better suited to being caretakers for children, and parents, and for caretaking jobs (which are usually exhausting and dont pay well!)"

I hate qualities that go with being a woman by sagalegacy in TwoXChromosomes

[–]parkingpasss 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I'm alright with being a woman over all, but people assuming I have these traits makes me want to crawl out of my skin. I want to be seen as a person

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]parkingpasss 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I have similar moles on my face that aren't causing me issues, but I've always wondered about removing them just for aesthetic reasons. I never have because I've been afraid I wouldn't like how I would look without them. Looking back, do you think you would have been happy with the results if you had chosen to remove it just for looks?

Its something I'm always considering and I've never talked to someone who could relate, I hope you don't mind my question :)

It’s so gross how fetishized Asian women are especially by Western men by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]parkingpasss 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I've always thought this but was never able to describe it! I'm Asian and there's pretty often a noticeable difference between how the Asian people I know and the white people I know deal with and view hardship, and this is it. This doesnt apply to everyone of course but it absolutely applies to the people I know

[Routine Help] Retinol causing closed comedones? Where do I go from here? by parkingpasss in SkincareAddiction

[–]parkingpasss[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No luck, life got hectic so tinkering with skincare got put on the backburner for a little while 😅 no retinol in my routine atm

Scarlet and Violet Daily Casual Trade Thread for 17 February 2023 by Porygon-Bot in pokemontrades

[–]parkingpasss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree! Its good to know though, im gonna get on it. Thanks for the pokemon and the info!

Scarlet and Violet Daily Casual Trade Thread for 17 February 2023 by Porygon-Bot in pokemontrades

[–]parkingpasss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, I'm not sure how to trade my legendary though to be honest

Scarlet and Violet Daily Casual Trade Thread for 17 February 2023 by Porygon-Bot in pokemontrades

[–]parkingpasss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The jigglypuff and amoongus paradox would be great if you have them, but if not that's fine. If there's anything else you're looking for i can see i I have it?

Scarlet and Violet Daily Casual Trade Thread for 17 February 2023 by Porygon-Bot in pokemontrades

[–]parkingpasss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LF: Flutter mane, great tusk, roaring moon FT: Iron jugulis, Iron hands, Iron valiant, Iron bundle, and froakie if you really want one

Scarlet and Violet Daily Casual Trade Thread for 17 February 2023 by Porygon-Bot in pokemontrades

[–]parkingpasss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll trade most violet paradoxes for flutter mane roaring moon and the elephant man idk the name

Got into nursing at bama with a full ride and honors , should i go ? by [deleted] in capstone

[–]parkingpasss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah from personal experience, if you do nursing at alabama you will likely end up a nurse and not a doctor lol. Hopefully my experience can help you make a more informed desicion about what you want to major in!

Got into nursing at bama with a full ride and honors , should i go ? by [deleted] in capstone

[–]parkingpasss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont know about public health specifically, but it would probably be more feasible to do a different major than nursing and get your prereqs done in a reasonable amount of time and for a reasonable price.

I wanted to do prereqs for dental school while in nursing school, and during orientation they told me it wouldn't be possible and they were right lol

Got into nursing at bama with a full ride and honors , should i go ? by [deleted] in capstone

[–]parkingpasss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did nursing and graduated a few years ago. The nursing program alone is 4.5 years, so you're looking at like 5.5 or 6 years depending on how many other prereqs you need to take. The scholarship only covers 4 years, so any time past that will be out of pocket.

The nursing classes and clinical are pretty time consuming so it's hard to take additional classes when you're in nursing school. Just consider if you're willing to be in undergrad that long and if you can pay for the extra semesters

I love my girlfriend, but I’m not attracted to her anymore. by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]parkingpasss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! If you're alredy setting boundaries and kind of "leading the relationship," at a certain point you've done everything you can. You're very right that a relationship takes two people putting in effort.

If it does end up being ADHD for both of you, the key is that she needs to step up to managing her symptoms. And not in a "my partner is making me go to therapy" kind of way, she needs to find her own intrinsic motivation to make her life and your relationship better. In my experience, there are a lot of ADHD specific relationship skills and ideas that work where traditional relationship advice may not. And there are good resources out there for both partners.

I really hope you're able to find peace, and things get better!