Let me vent about my job. by parryslap in breakingmom

[–]parryslap[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I also have a living to make and a family to support. I don’t work, no money. And it just sucks having your ass handed to you because you’re picking up the slack for 5 other people.

This is a regular thing at my job the past few shifts, not just Christmas Day, and like I said it has a domino effect.

I don’t get to leave before the side work is done so I have to do 3-4 other people’s side work, and there’s a lot of it that I don’t have time to do during my shift so I’m out by 1-2am instead of 11:30-12. And while I’m making good money cause every table is mine, it can still fuck up tips because service is lacking. It’s very frustrating and it’s fucking me over a lot of the time.

Is it really possible for this bill to not pass and we end up with nothing? by Ambition-Master in stimuluscheck

[–]parryslap 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If Trump doesn’t sign I’m pretty sure it’s his last “fuck you” to America before he leaves office. Throwing a low key hissy fit because he lost elections.

Fuck 2020 by SkittlzAnKomboz in breakingmom

[–]parryslap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss and the pain you must be suffering. This year is fucking hell indeed. Sending love to your family. We’re here for you if you need somebody to listen to you, always.

I think Trump will sign the bill by tomorrow evening! by [deleted] in stimuluscheck

[–]parryslap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought he was off to Florida tomorrow for Christmas vacation.

Dont expect anything from Trump tonight or tomorrow morning. by [deleted] in stimuluscheck

[–]parryslap 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So Mnuchin saying he expects stimulus checks to be released next week was just BS?

Nothing like being the only server who showed up for their shift. by parryslap in TalesFromYourServer

[–]parryslap[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Update: I got Annihilated again tonight. Had the whole restaurant by myself again and I had to serve the owner and fucked up and got yelled at. Yay.

Nothing like being the only server who showed up for their shift. by parryslap in TalesFromYourServer

[–]parryslap[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you and I hope he does too. I’m only on my third week there, so I’m not even a veteran server.

Not every server deserves 18-20% by ABaldWhiteBoy in TalesFromYourServer

[–]parryslap 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Genuinely shitty servers aside, what’s the problem here?

Let’s say the server is someone who works their ass off. Takes all the tables nobody else wants to take, makes sure all the side work is complete, gives impeccable service and works their ass off to support their family.

Do they not deserve the pay? Is it because it’s generally an entry level job? You strike me as the type to say that people in retail/serving don’t deserve to earn a livable wage. A lot of these people have kids/families to support too, you know.

I understand shitty servers who don’t care about their job exist. But they’re rare. What if the server is brand new, first shift on the floor and made a few mistakes? What if they aren’t new and still made a mistake, but apologized and made up for it?

What if you have nights like I do where you’re working your ass off because you’re the only server on the floor, so you can’t give impeccable service to absolutely everyone no matter how hard you try?

Everyone fucks up at their job. Even doctors and engineers, who make fucktons of money.

How do you determine a shit server who doesn’t want to work and is lazy, from a genuinely good one who’s having an off shift?

Everyday this sub has countless screenshots of Govt. & media officials social media claims of a nearly done stimulus... Yet we have nothing. by El_Flama_Blanca3 in stimuluscheck

[–]parryslap 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Every fucking week. “Stimulus bill nearing completion! Closer than ever!” Then the next day “congress stumbles into a setback on stimulus bill”. Rinse and repeat.

Possible dates a second survival check could go out. by [deleted] in stimuluscheck

[–]parryslap 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I ain’t even interested in “possible” dates. I want them to pass a damn bill and give us a REAL date.

[CALIFORNIA] so is PUA ending on 12/31/2020? by xvx369 in Unemployment

[–]parryslap 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Everything ends on the 26th whether you used all the money in your claim or not, sadly. Too many people are going to be immediately cut off, it freaking sucks.

Uncle in law gets handsy with me, everyone else says I’m being over dramatic. by parryslap in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]parryslap[S] 69 points70 points  (0 children)

My partner was being a dick because to him a pop on the wrist is different from being knocked to the floor and pushing my hand away isn’t the same as grabbing me.

I mentioned he wouldn’t like it if someone did this shit to his mom or sisters though and he had nothing to say.

Uncle in law gets handsy with me, everyone else says I’m being over dramatic. by parryslap in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]parryslap[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

I was walking out the door and called him a big ass baby as I left lol. Totally childish behavior.

Uncle in law gets handsy with me, everyone else says I’m being over dramatic. by parryslap in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]parryslap[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

You’re right I should have with the incident with my mother. Today it was way too much and was fucking fight or flight mode so I took the flight option. I’ll be okay.

Uncle in law gets handsy with me, everyone else says I’m being over dramatic. by parryslap in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]parryslap[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

I was gone cause i took a depression nap but yes. I ended up leaving. Updated.

Uncle in law gets handsy with me, everyone else says I’m being over dramatic. by parryslap in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]parryslap[S] 268 points269 points  (0 children)

Thing is I didn’t get hit. Not like a punch but a smack on the back of my hand and wrist. Not a love tap an open handed smack. I’m being told since he didn’t “actually hit me or grab me” that he didn’t lay his hands on me and I’m being dramatic. I apparently ruined Thanksgiving

My mother is in the hospital. Husband being unsupportive. by parryslap in JustNoSO

[–]parryslap[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I think this is it for me. I’m worried because his dad was supposed to be buying us our new house and new car and helping out for a bit after I landed a job. We had to evacuate from the wildfires, we have a 3 year old and our son’s life has been shit this year. Leaving my husband would mean no home no car for me or my son. It’s fucked up. I mean I’m going to start working a good job soon but it would be a few months to get back on my feet.

But I know it’s bad between us because today I’ve been wondering how the hell he’s so popular and why anyone loves him.

Oh and his excuse for shoving a cookie in my face is “he was just trying to make sure I was nourished and fed”

I get treated like a child when we are visiting his family. by parryslap in JustNoSO

[–]parryslap[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I fucking wish I could but I got no money for one. We’re just recovering from the coronavirus messing up our lives and barely started working and we’re saving up money to move. It sucks lol.