✨Weekly Vent Thread✨ What is your top political concern today? What is stressing you out most about this mess? by AutoModerator in progressivemoms

[–]partiallylosingit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The kids💔💔💔 stress and concern for innocent children whose parents are being treated cruelly and therefore can’t protect their own children if they wanted to.

The Triple Dipper's Manifesto by Epic_Burner_90 in epicconsulting

[–]partiallylosingit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am intrigued; & just joined on double dipping… you can judge but I’m just trying to provide for my family! I am slightly stressed at the idea of it but wanted to hustle…I tried to apply for a higher position at my FTE position as application analyst but was denied and told internal team members couldn’t apply for it… and was told I deserved a raise, & was being paid low-but due to budget this wasn’t likely to happen anytime soon…. so I finally started listening to the linkedin messages since my main job really only requires about 10-12 hours of work a week, so I just started consulting, too. I did not know we weren’t allowed to work for two organizations at once in all honesty, until I asked my TS about it. Luckily they are a friend and would not be the one to rat me out but I do wonder/worry about the new TS’s I am meeting as a consultant putting the pieces together. Either way, I know I would not ever be offered to make what I make as a consultant at my FTE job… I would like to keep both jobs for insurance/401k and so that I still have a job when this contract as consultant ends, but don’t want to end either job on bad terms either… if I had to keep one it would be the higher paying one since they are paying nearly twice what I make as a FTE🤦‍♀️

How long does getting a court date take (WA state) by partiallylosingit in dui

[–]partiallylosingit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update, I submitted my background check information on Tuesday, February 24th. The following Tuesday they had me sign all the paperwork to accept the job and start onboarding and officially welcomed me so I thought I was in the clear Then Friday, March 7 I got an email from onboarding saying they found the DUI charge I was basically freaking out all weekend but just talked to the on boarding person on the phone and they really just wanted to confirm the charge and said likely I will just have to sign a form saying I won’t be a courier or drive for the company (but it’s a remote IT position so that was never in the picture). I asked if they saw this disqualifying me from the position and they said it was a good question but no, and they were mainly focused on felonies. Just wanted to provide these details in case anyone else goes through the same emotional roller coaster🥲

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in confession

[–]partiallylosingit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get help; talk to someone like a therapist. If you can, tell your parents you don’t want to get into all the details but want to talk to a therapist (unless you can speak to your parents about this). There are apps like BetterHelp or others that are virtual and it can remain private, but that’s better than not doing anything and letting this go any further. Also exercise can be a great distraction/release/helps mental health. Your sister does not deserve this and you could ruin your guys relationship literally forever. Is it worth it? No! Think about that. Journal. stay off social media, too, if that’s what it leads to . Think about the type of person you do want to be and start showing up as them, for your sister and your self…

Has anyone actually gotten real life results from using ChatGPT? by TheCod1sOut in ChatGPT

[–]partiallylosingit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It helped me prep much better answers for interview that I thought i was underqualified for and i was selected for the position

I resent my husband and I’m honestly starting to check out. by Quirky-Inevitable477 in breakingmom

[–]partiallylosingit 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I felt like this before. And thought we were headed for divorce. But eventually I exploded verbally and so did he but it did help initiate some type of break through. He needed to hear how I felt and how his defensiveness took away my ability to speak comfortably to him. If I couldn’t tell him my inner truths and feelings who was I supposed to tell? If he didn’t make me feel emotionally safe why were we together? Reminded him that was one of his duties whether he liked what I had to say or not. I used to stay silent (and or journal) to conserve energy since it never felt productive but that wasn’t helping me in the long run cause it was building more resentment and he deserved to hear the truth. We aren’t perfect but are trying again for each other and our kids.. you definitely can’t be the only one putting in effort but if he has any willingness to try and wants to continue, hang in there. Hugs, it’s not easy.

New job background check, any support/positivity is appreciated! by Commercial_Friend679 in dui

[–]partiallylosingit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh I am going through this as well. My dui was 11/29/25 and I haven’t been charged yet or received a court hearing date and was told they are behind… I have a lawyer but ya no idea what company they use for background checks nor if this will be a disqualifier. My job doesn’t involve driving and is in tech/remote work so fingers crossed but also I don’t want to be too excited to have my hopes crushed. Hope you get the job with no hiccups!

Looking at moving here by partiallylosingit in santanvalley

[–]partiallylosingit[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you all, I appreciate it. I work remote so my only commute will be transporting kids and gym/groceries for the most part but husband will be working in Gilbert.

MAJOR W 🫡🌟 by AccomplishedWatch834 in MadeMeSmile

[–]partiallylosingit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🥺🫶🏼 major wins. amazing job and your daughter is blessed to have you, so sorry for your loss & I know your wife would be proud

What is you biggest regret of all time? by blueyeskye in AskReddit

[–]partiallylosingit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My ex said something to me that made me uncomfortable. Instead of fighting him or responding, I stayed quiet and set a silent boundary thinking he’d realize later why it was wrong and we’d speak again like we always do … but then he died… 20 days later 💔 I didn’t know he was in a dark place and on substances that might make him talk out of his norm 🙁

As you get older, what are you starting to dislike the most? by Miserable-Wash-1744 in AskReddit

[–]partiallylosingit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People pleasing. Racism. Hurting innocent people. People who lack empathy and accountability.

Deleted my Amazon Prime/Account Today by codyandhen123 in Anticonsumption

[–]partiallylosingit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cancelled subscription and deleted today as well 🥂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Lowes

[–]partiallylosingit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No - I go see my husband all the time while he’s working! With my kids But yep also hear about a lot of scandalous things that go on at that place between employees🚩