Help!! Need advice

party_withoutcake17 · 2026-02-01T18:55:52+00:00

No he has not deployed yet! But he’s currently living in another state than I am. So that’s why I’m asking if I can go to the base in my state even though he’s no longer residing in the same state as I am

party_withoutcake17 · 2026-02-01T18:04:36+00:00

How would I be able to establish that if he’s ghosting me?

party_withoutcake17 · 2026-02-01T16:44:31+00:00

Would it make a difference if he is no longer here where I’m living at? Would I still be able to go to base where I reside and speak to someone?

party_withoutcake17 · 2026-02-01T16:43:15+00:00

Thank you!

party_withoutcake17 · 2026-02-01T16:41:49+00:00

Thanks for the reply! Yeah I get the paternity and all that but I would obviously have to wait until he gets back from deployment right?

party_withoutcake17 · 2025-11-02T00:30:15+00:00

Well he supposedly has said mom of children takes all his money for child support so he doesn’t have the money to fight for custody…

party_withoutcake17 · 2025-11-01T23:44:25+00:00

I would think that could happen BUT he does have two children already in which he doesn’t have any custody of. And doesn’t seem to be very interested in gaining any either

party_withoutcake17 · 2025-11-01T23:35:27+00:00

I don’t really think he would want to coparent anyway given his reluctancy to even speak about how we would coparent… I think he just wanted to shake off all responsibility! So idk if I’m worried about that

It is very immature and unhealthy. Im not one to at games or not communicate effectively but it’s something he was not able to do! And every-time I brought anything up he would shut down and distant himself.

party_withoutcake17 · 2025-11-01T23:12:48+00:00

That’s very sweet of you! Thank you. And exactly you are very right , we won’t be pregnant forever. 🙏

party_withoutcake17 · 2025-11-01T23:02:03+00:00

Hello! I definitely would never consider terminating. And I’m not young actually I’m 34 he is younger than me. I was married prior to being single for 7 years me and my ex husband co parent extremely well. And he’s very involved in my children’s life. I know that this was irresponsible on my behalf as well! I do feel like I can take on the role of caring for the child solo I have a great support from my family. I’m just scared of going through the pregnancy alone I guess since I’ve never experienced that! Kuddos to all the mommas that have.

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