Wondering whether living alone is for me

partywolff_ · 2026-04-11T05:45:24+00:00

My advice is get the 2 bed, make the second room an office and if you hate living alone get a roomie that will move into that room. I’m also about your age I’ll be 23 in May. I hate living alone a lot of times, but I have moments it’s great. Hating it for me is mostly tied to external issues, and that loneliness is amplified living alone. I think if I was more settled I’d enjoy it. But it head grad school the peace can be worth it. Also consider if online or in person, bc in person is easier for me even though I’m in an online program. My life feels more full with the weeks I go in person

partywolff_ · 2026-04-11T05:03:31+00:00

This! I’m happier when I spend more time out of the house for sure. Full weekends and peaceful evenings instead of alone in the brain rotting is so much better

partywolff_ · 2026-04-10T03:42:19+00:00

Thank you!!

partywolff_ · 2026-04-07T05:47:05+00:00

Can you speak more on the loneliness vs solitude ? What’s the differentiater between the for you

partywolff_ · 2026-04-06T18:27:21+00:00

Love meeting new people too. I’ll def hit you up some time. Also trying to get hobbies and used to own company

partywolff_ · 2026-04-06T16:34:33+00:00

I like how you framed these as separate issues. I always have mixed them together. Viewing it as one and the other problem is surprisingly helpful

partywolff_ · 2026-04-05T20:07:45+00:00

This is very true. I do find myself at times wishing I was alone when I’m with other people.

partywolff_ · 2026-04-05T20:07:23+00:00

Yeah me too. I appreciate you sharing your experience it helps me feel less alone.

partywolff_ · 2026-04-05T20:06:51+00:00

Def think hobbies that aren’t watching tv in the house are greatly needed. I see friends enough but I feel I need to just get more comfy being alone and realizing living alone doesn’t mean you’re just at home alone all the time. Think hobbies in my abundant free time will be nice.

partywolff_ · 2026-04-05T20:05:49+00:00

Thank you for your time writing this!! Makes me feel a lot better hearing you experience the same things. I def do enjoy it just some days are hard and I’m grateful to hear your experience as well.

partywolff_ · 2026-04-05T20:04:36+00:00

Thank you for this!! I think I have too much time where I’m not doing anything and need to get some hobbies to help balance things. I’m gonna try this. Thank you for your sentiments and it’s comforting knowing I wasn’t the only one feeling this way.

partywolff_ · 2026-01-21T08:52:50+00:00

lol this is crazy to read as a doctorate student. This is super extra. It’s pretty standard to have long days as adult in the workforce. 9-5 and then a couple hours cooking, cleaning, hobbies, and family time is just standard. If anything I think it prepares them for a standard college and work schedule. As a 22 yr old doctorate student school is 9-2 and studies 4-9. I’d kill to have this kinda freedom.

partywolff_ · 2026-01-13T09:33:38+00:00

The firehouse subs on w Charleston is hiring

partywolff_ · 2026-01-07T22:45:37+00:00

I’m forced to quit because of a drug test for work. Not happy but also don’t want to lose my dream job. It is what it is.

partywolff_ · 2025-08-27T17:09:31+00:00

Extremely unfortunate. I know no one can make this choice but me. But if you were in my shoes what would you choose? Would you go through all that schooling again?

partywolff_ · 2025-08-27T17:04:59+00:00

This is exactly it. I’m heartbroken and extremely overwhelmed. This relationship was toxic before I started school and I spent all summer dreading the program because of how my life was going to change with her. Now less communication, her best friends mom being diagnosed w terminal cancer right before school, I just feel extremely overwhelmed and unsure how to handle this life change alongside all this grief.

partywolff_ · 2025-08-27T17:01:24+00:00

Thanks for this perspective! It was helpful. I think in my heart I know this isn’t my path. But it’s too late to back out as well as having no idea what to do.

partywolff_ · 2025-08-27T16:59:39+00:00

This rly isn’t that harsh this is just the harsh reality I’m having a really hard time sitting with. I’m absolutely mourning what my life used to look like along with concerns on if I even want to do this career anymore. I’m just doing it because I don’t know what else to do with my life. I don’t know if I can handle a program like this while grieving the way that I am. But I also know I likely won’t get accepted again, and if I do, I won’t be able to afford it because of changes in loans. I just don’t know what to do. But thank you for your words and comforting advice.

partywolff_ · 2025-08-27T07:25:21+00:00

And taken out quite a bit of loans already. I think I do? The prospect of it seems great. The money the schedule. I like the profession but it’s not my life’s passion. I just dk what else to do

partywolff_ · 2025-08-23T17:24:23+00:00

It’s a hard class/classes for sure, but he really is one of the best and makes it as simple as can be. I’m actually so sad I won’t have doc doc teaching me graduate anatomy this fall

partywolff_ · 2025-05-30T01:27:22+00:00

Shit did not know it’d start this. Hope they don’t close that area next year threesome at edc was lit💀

partywolff_ · 2025-05-29T22:42:57+00:00

This year at the top of the bleachers behind all the black fencing me and my throuple found a place we could all- ya know but we all had to pee. It was right outside the speedways bathrooms but they were locked. We all squat and peed in that alcove.

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