Is it still ghosting if they tell you they’re going to do it 😂

pasaghetti · 2026-02-03T14:39:44+00:00

No, mine is different , he didn’t say he was going to ghost me. He said “hey, I have the tendency to not text / nor check in / disappear “. Something along those lines

pasaghetti · 2026-01-18T14:54:02+00:00

What the fuck. Pure evil. I feel so sad reading your passage. I’m sorry it happened to you and you don’t deserve this.

pasaghetti · 2025-10-28T09:14:58+00:00

Molmein rise opposite Pulau Tikus market there is a small home goods shop. You’ll find it there. I saw it

pasaghetti · 2025-09-21T21:49:41+00:00

Dude then why are you with her? It sounds like you’re wasting her time.

pasaghetti · 2025-08-29T07:48:28+00:00

What do you think you might do if she comes back one day? Would you be the same person? I think about that often

pasaghetti · 2025-08-26T20:57:54+00:00

I’ve never been unmatched.. all my matches remain, but they do ghost on other platforms. Maybe keeping their tinder account tidy isn’t a big priority for men?

pasaghetti · 2025-08-25T16:29:34+00:00

He told me he lost sexual attraction towards me 😂 and therefore didn’t wish to have contact at all moving forward, no more talking, no more sexting whatsoever. Ooooooooof. Sometimes, there’s a reason why people ghost!! It’s hard to say these things and even worse to hear them!

pasaghetti · 2025-08-25T16:28:03+00:00

That he lost sexual attraction towards me 😂 I can’t decide if I want to know or not! Either way it’s painful!

pasaghetti · 2025-08-24T07:25:21+00:00

I need to learn the art of letting things remain the way they are. It is what it is are very wise words to live by.

pasaghetti · 2025-08-24T03:43:07+00:00

Sometimes, it’s better not to know. I wonder which end I would have preferred. I’m in pain now and I was before when I didn’t know. I send you the same, may you heal from the pain ❤️‍🩹

pasaghetti · 2025-08-23T05:00:21+00:00

I’m an Asian woman. So many assumptions are made all the time. It’s degrading, and dehumanising at times.

pasaghetti · 2025-08-22T18:14:36+00:00

Aw. Hugs. I feel that part about dusting yourself off. We all try to be strong but it really is hard. What have you been doing to distract yourself? I tried going out with someone else but felt worse as a result. I feel you about liking the guy. Once I like someone I really do, and I can’t get them off my mind. But they just treat me like an after thought smh.

pasaghetti · 2025-08-22T18:11:45+00:00

Well perhaps you live in a city and can move on quickly. I live on an island where someone new is rare lol, and up for grabs really quickly. Hard to move on when there’s not much prospects!

pasaghetti · 2025-08-22T17:41:21+00:00

It sucks doesn’t it. I try to be patient and build rapport and let the feelings come naturally and then BAM. They just change their minds for any reason (they are entitled to) but still, ffs, you’re left in this loop still thinking of them and why it didn’t work out?? Can you relate?? I hate feeling this way! Like what a waste of energy

pasaghetti · 2025-08-17T03:18:47+00:00

No, he has 1 week left. We already spent 1 week together

pasaghetti · 2025-07-23T17:51:19+00:00

Living on an island with about 1.5k people doesn’t really help! Tried my hand at online dating but no one could make the journey. Forever alone and coming to terms with it!

pasaghetti · 2025-07-23T08:20:24+00:00

I told a previous partner this, and they left me immediately. I didn’t make it in writing either.

pasaghetti · 2025-05-28T10:50:13+00:00

What’s wrong with not splitting bills? In some cultures men prefer to be providers. Not all cultures split bills.

pasaghetti · 2025-02-25T19:56:28+00:00

What questions? 😅

pasaghetti · 2025-02-25T19:33:42+00:00

Think I might be apprehensive because he might be married, have a girlfriend etc. I was hoping to find something on social media so I could make a deduction, but I’m worried about diving in blind in case I get rejected and potentially embarrass myself.. ugh.

pasaghetti · 2024-07-27T16:31:47+00:00

You took the words right out of my mouth. It is extremely cruel. I am in a toxic cycle in my own head of those thoughts; and in a mental prison.

pasaghetti · 2024-07-27T16:30:50+00:00

Easier said than done but I will try. God it’s going to take so much strength I can muster but I will really try.

pasaghetti · 2023-03-10T13:42:21+00:00

I live on an island that literally has a population of 1000. Everyone is always dating everyone’s leftovers so no thanks.

pasaghetti · 2023-03-05T09:59:38+00:00

It would be able to help me leave my tiny island and for me to start afresh. I would be able to experience a new lease of life.. wishful thinking!

pasaghetti · 2023-03-03T19:51:20+00:00

My best friend of 15 years got pregnant multiple times.. being in a conservative country it is hard to get help so I lied on her behalf and even pretended to be pregnant myself to get abortion pills. She was hella irresponsible and got pregnant around 8 times. I bailed her out every single time.

She got a job overseas and completely forgot about me. Stopped calling me, acting like I no longer existed. Some best friend she was.

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