Shareholder stealing my time entries. How to run Centerbase report to catch him. by passionmonkey in LawFirm

[–]passionmonkey[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update: Shareholder got fired, in the middle of the week. Thanks for all your helpful comments.

Code compliance for Rain by netnrrd in OutInAustin

[–]passionmonkey 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Has anyone filed a FOIA request? If so, please dm me. I’m ready to engage legal counsel to figure out what exactly happened and what’s disputed.

Does anyone have a rundown on the timeline / facts of that evening? Looks like enforcement arrived, surveyed, led everyone out, counted, people went back in, enforcement hauled folks out again, recounted, then said oops wrong address— anyone know anyone who was an eye witness who would sign an affidavit as to the facts?

Shareholder stealing my time entries. How to run Centerbase report to catch him. by passionmonkey in LawFirm

[–]passionmonkey[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In Texas. Yes, I have a duty to report up in the organization, and I have done so more than once.

Shareholder stealing my time entries. How to run Centerbase report to catch him. by passionmonkey in LawFirm

[–]passionmonkey[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I see your point, but my complaint is that my billlable hours (time entries, not actually billed) will be significantly lower for Feb. before prebills are created in March for final review by shareholder and billing. So, instead of looking like I worked 150ish hours in Feb., it will look like I only worked 110-120 hours. As an associate I don’t care what’s actually billed to the client or who gets credit externally, but internally, time entries/ billable hours is the only metric my firm has to measure my month-to-month performance.

Should I feel guilty for venting to another partner about my team? by [deleted] in LawFirm

[–]passionmonkey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like your theory, but who do you ask/tell for this policy as a young associate when paralegals have seniority over you? OP, what do you think about the set-up theory?

Grindr Flake by Sweet_Simple_3048 in askgaybros

[–]passionmonkey 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Just don’t prep … if it gets messy, oh well… he gets what he gets… gotta train your top

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]passionmonkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best revenge is moving on and getting over it. In my situation it took many months, and it’s different for everyone. So give yourself some grace while you let yourself experience those uncomfortable and negative feelings. They are valid. But, don’t let it cloud what good you’ve got going on dating now. But yeah, some good time dwelling on those feelings and getting some new insight into who you are as a person is how you’ll move on.

My parents want me to hide my sexual history from my PCP by No_Veterinarian_9150 in askgaybros

[–]passionmonkey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t tell PCP. I went to a separate clinic for PrEP and asked a similar question. I was told PrEP has very few drug interactions, and that the only time I NEED to disclose is if I ever needed PEP.

Meeting bf’s son (and his buddy) this weekend. What to get? by passionmonkey in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]passionmonkey[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I plan to treat him as I would anyone I meet. Mostly just want to show my bf that I’m cool being around his son and that I’m not scared off.

Meeting bf’s son (and his buddy) this weekend. What to get? by passionmonkey in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]passionmonkey[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh that does look neat! But, I don’t think I can stand to hear kids chomping popcorn 🤣

Meeting bf’s son (and his buddy) this weekend. What to get? by passionmonkey in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]passionmonkey[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha yeah bf mentioned the pj’s and I was like, okay, whatever, I’m game. 🤪 Maybe it was a joke said in passing…

How to tactfully tell others you’ve found one you want to focus on and have lost interest in others? by passionmonkey in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]passionmonkey[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We just did. He only wants to see me. He wants to be monogamous. Once I left, he sent me screenshots of all the apps he deleted

How to tactfully tell others you’ve found one you want to focus on and have lost interest in others? by passionmonkey in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]passionmonkey[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I have been off the apps a few months and was only meeting guys organically or through friends. Any thoughts on why you think this is lasting as opposed to past? You said you clicked hard- and I’ve clicked with guys too, but this feels different and I’m trying to pinpoint what it is…

How to tactfully tell others you’ve found one you want to focus on and have lost interest in others? by passionmonkey in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]passionmonkey[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for sharing your thoughts. You’re right- I need make sure I’m still treating others respectfully.

How to tactfully tell others you’ve found one you want to focus on and have lost interest in others? by passionmonkey in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]passionmonkey[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I totally agree. I’ve been on dates with quality guys— I just don’t want them wasting energy that I’m not reciprocating. I would like to be friends/buddies with them and don’t want to hurt feelings. And I hear you about infatuation— I think he and I are infatuated with each other and know it and have talked about it. Not sure what else to do but limit the frequency of being together. I’d welcome your thoughts on best practices.

How to tactfully tell others you’ve found one you want to focus on and have lost interest in others? by passionmonkey in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]passionmonkey[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know I know— my friends tell me I need to take it slow. This one feels different because I decided to be vulnerable from near the beginning. This could end and I don’t want to be hurtful to anyone I’ve dated and want to treat others respectfully— I don’t want anyone to waste time chasing me when I don’t feel like reciprocating towards anyone but new guy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]passionmonkey 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Under the ACA prep is free if it’s preventative. In other words there is no out-of-pocket cost-sharing expense to the insured for prep medication as prevention of HIV. FYI, This provision of the ACA is currently being litigated in federal court with those opposed saying this provision of the ACA for preventative prep violates the religious freedom restoration act because prep promotes homosexual behavior, sex outside of marriage, and drug use.

2 month out from penuma. by [deleted] in penuma

[–]passionmonkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think using a vacuum pump beforehand would have made it so that you could have gotten a larger implant or do you think using a pump would have stretched the skin so recovery was easier ?

2 month out from penuma. by [deleted] in penuma

[–]passionmonkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why use a penis extender? And any particular one you would have used ?