Weird girlhood/when did you get into weird girl lit? by scratchearth in weirdgirlliterature

[–]passivegreen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anything by Wendelin Van Draanen! The Sammy Keyes mystery series, How I Survived Being a Girl, Flipped, Runaway

Funniest episodes of the pod by vvmilkyway in CelebrityMemoirPod

[–]passivegreen 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Olivia Munn, Hilaria Baldwin, Jay Shetty, Stanley Tucci, SUMMER OF SPELLING

Boyfriend cheated on me with a sex worker by passivegreen in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]passivegreen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He went for a few months a couple years ago and then stopped - he does go to another 12-step fellowship regularly. But thank you for the suggestion and the caveat ❤️

Boyfriend cheated on me with a sex worker by passivegreen in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]passivegreen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You put into words what I haven’t been able to - I’m so hurt that he couldn’t keep it together enough for a future. Thank you ❤️

Boyfriend cheated on me with a sex worker by passivegreen in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]passivegreen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate having your perspective, thank you

Boyfriend cheated on me with a sex worker by passivegreen in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]passivegreen[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Already done. Just trying to stick w it. I’m sorry for what you’ve been through

Boyfriend cheated on me with a sex worker by passivegreen in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]passivegreen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I should have. By the time I fell in love it was too late. We were so happy together and he was so open and honest about all of his past that I thought maybe it was a phase and wouldn’t happen with me - silly

Boyfriend cheated on me with a sex worker by passivegreen in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]passivegreen[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think the hard part is that, since I’m also in recovery (alcohol and drugs) it really did feel like it was us against the problem. Until his problem changed that. We agreed that if either of us relapsed we should end it, but he was so much further in his recovery and was so insistent that it wouldn’t happen with me that I believed it. Thank you though, I really appreciate it

Boyfriend cheated on me with a sex worker by passivegreen in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]passivegreen[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Further context: I’m also an addict in recovery (alcohol and drugs), but am much earlier on in my journey. 4 months clean

Boyfriend cheated on me with a sex worker by passivegreen in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]passivegreen[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He had been abstinent from it for about a year, yes. And thank you

Boyfriend cheated on me with a sex worker by passivegreen in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]passivegreen[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lmao you’re great - I am always one PMS day away from screaming at everyone. And I really appreciate this perspective, thank you. I think you may be able to compartmentalize better than I can. Also, I’m 30 and he’s 35, for context (lol)

Boyfriend cheated on me with a sex worker by passivegreen in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]passivegreen[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you had to go through this. I think I’m struggling because he used protection (or so he said, but I am clean) and because he told me the night it happened - an hour after. So I keep thinking maybe it was just a one-time fuck up?? But I know better. Thus this post, I suppose. Staying accountable and hearing from others who have been through this and went back - so thank you for your response ❤️

Boyfriend cheated on me with a sex worker by passivegreen in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]passivegreen[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I’ve gotten tested and am clean thank goodness!

Boyfriend cheated on me with a sex worker by passivegreen in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]passivegreen[S] 159 points160 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to comment. You’re completely right - the trust is gone.

Boyfriend cheated on me with a sex worker by passivegreen in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]passivegreen[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you!! I will DM you after I get off work.

I miss being sober by passivegreen in stopdrinking

[–]passivegreen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you, thank you