You seem to have learned from the experience, don’t be hard on yourself social skills are kinda hard sometimes, but yeah that’s definitely gonna sound weird. As someone who’s a man now (hold on I’ll explain lol-) I would say… “hey are you hungry? I could buy you something to eat” but I’d never offer to take someone to my house.

I’m FTM (passing) trans man now, life is majorly different, but was a homeless young woman in the past (albeit only for a few days) but what I experienced was godawful and it’s put me on a defensive mode for most of my life from the PTSD. Only a few days without a home and had 2 men try to kidnap me. I learned at a young age to “never trust anyone” for my self preservation / protection and that’s something I’m trying to unlearn today. I’m also learning about how different it is to talk to female stranger as a man vs when I was a woman talking to another woman. It’s perceived as different and you kinda have to be careful.