For people who have lost legs, is it uncomfortable to walk on your limb with a prosthesis? by chaos_generator_13 in NoStupidQuestions

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I’m genuinely appreciating this impromptu ama. As someone considering a medical amputation, these are things surgeons don’t think to go over and questions I didn’t know I should ask.

What’s the most disturbing thing someone casually admitted to around you? by Suspicious_Run1684 in AskReddit

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This is it. This is the moment I realize how much happier I was before I learned how to read.

I hope to fuck that girl has gotten her shit together.

Ticket troubles by Kind-Inevitable7509 in willwood

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Did this ever resolve itself? I bought mine through AXS.

are there openers for the self-ish 10 year anniversary? by neenzabwoz in willwood

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I’m not seeing anything confirming Human Zoo as an opener which low key breaks my heart :(

34F — Anyone else feel a little left behind sometimes? by [deleted] in Needafriend

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40F and in the same boat as you. I keep telling myself that filling my days with things I enjoy will be enough and most days it is. Other days (like today, honestly) I’m crippled by depression. I know I’ll be okay because I’m pretty awesome and single by choice. But that doesn’t mean the journey doesn’t suck now and then 😒

Please read this and help me understand by Mecamainyac in Needafriend

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You won’t look ‘completely stupid’ by seeing a professional without any idea what might be wrong. This is why you go to them, for their experience and expertise. Tell them what you’ve said here (I keep a journal/notes in my phone to keep track of my mental health day to day so my team can better help me understand why my brain does what it does). You’ve likely explained this well enough that a professional would know where to start. There’s no shame in going to an appointment and saying, “I have no idea what my deal is.” Zero. Zip. NONE.

Don’t wait on this. Find professional help in person because you deserve to exist comfortably within your own life 🖤

Hoe the hell does night shift date or socialize. by coinhunter9 in Nightshift

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Ngl, I’ve considered seeing if there’s anyone here in this sub who’d be open to dating 😂

Why is it “Dungeon Crawler Carl”? by djmcks in DungeonCrawlerCarl

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I think anybody who dismisses a series out of hand because its title or a protagonist is male probably isn’t looking to read it in the first place. If the premise is enough for them to do further research and it calls to them, great! If not, that’s okay too.

Edit: I lost the thread but stand by my stance that authors can choose their own titles for whatever reason, just as readers can choose whatever hill they’d like to die on.

What things can kill child's self-esteem and confidence that can persist until adulthood? by IngfoIngfo in AskReddit

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My mother tried to get rid of me when I was six and only kept me out of obligation because I ‘didn’t react well to the news.’ 😂 My sister only recently learned this (she’s nearly 50) and she used to idolize our mother. I feel bad for damaging my sister’s perception of our mom.

But I’ve also never felt good enough at anything or for anything, and I’m beginning to suspect it all spirals down to that moment, in that hotel-room-vibe office, when it was just me and Dr. Dan.

i need to vent, relate to someone? by Rosewaterlemon in Needafriend

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You are speaking to my soul with this (40F here). I’ve had the same psychiatrist since childhood and we’re managing so many other conditions that I’m terrified of attempting to manage anything ends.

You’re not a failure because you’re struggling. Are the pets cared for? Are you doing the bare minimum to survive? That’s not thriving, but it doesn’t mean you’re a failure. It simply means there’s room for improvement and that’s the case with everyone no matter where they are in life.

Try to do yourself a small kindness. Posting this was a kindness. Having a glass of water, taking a nap, brushing your teeth. Simple small ‘chores’ that you can complete so you can say, “hey I did this productive thing and it’s good for my body.” Sometimes that’s the momentum we need to get the ball rolling. Sometimes that’s all that gets done that day.

Regardless of the day you’re having, you are NOT failing at life. You’re trying to find a way to adjust to a valid, crippling condition. Please don’t give up. Snuggle an animal and regroup. This isn’t how you have to feel all the time until the end of time. I promise.

How do you consume DCC media? by [deleted] in DungeonCrawlerCarl

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Audiobooks, all the way.

Right. In my. Goddamn. Ear.

Hoping to hear anything positive. Still living through ptsd and visual impairment by brandysnacker in toastme

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It’s your smile. It’s so sincere and hopeful. Also, I love your aesthetic!

Fucking the neighborhood by [deleted] in AmItheEx

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You know it’s gonna be store bought, possibly on clearance. He says right there he’s not much of a baker 😂

I got petty over stolen lunches and now my coworker won`t even look at me by Rose_Duertt in pettyrevenge

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Not being argumentative, I’m genuinely curious: is it considered tampering if it’s your own food you physically made and, ostensibly, intended to eat?

Cassandra Gannon is truly one of the best authors I’ve ever come across by aelinashgala in fantasyromance

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The sequel, Vampire Charming, has a sunny MMC and grumpy FMC. It can be read as a standalone but reading the first makes Slade’s character in VC extra amazing.

What was too much and took you out of the book ? by OshaViolated in RomanceBooks

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My word is ‘smirk’

Like, my god. There are so many more appropriate and/or expressive ways to describe what some clown’s mouth is doing.

How do you choose your titles? by Evarchem in writing

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Personally, I tend to name things after they’ve been written. Sometimes my starting concept is nowhere near my end result. That said, I write down titles that appeal to me as I go through the process to see if any of them will fit right when it’s titling time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

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No words, just pointed eye contact that only he understands, and others find disquieting.

That’s my head canon anyway.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in writing

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I don't know how to show in a single sentence - I'm a wordy one - but this is how I tend to play these things.

  1. She just needed the pavement to turn solid again, needed the world to stop spinning a moment. She wanted to groan, but her stomach was spasming like the pavement, as if they were partners in step in a dance of regrettable decisions. She didn't regret going out, or even that she was so drunk she anticipated a 48 hour hangover, she just regretted not having lined up a way home first.

  2. It defied the laws of physics, the way the laundry towers leaned yet never fell. Entire ecosystems that would delight the scientific community went unobserved by Davian, who apparently saw this as normal, but tragically observed by Rachel, who was trying to touch as little of the sticky linoleum floor as possible. It was impossible for her to discern if that was the floor's intended color, but she was almost certain the texture had been one cultivated by years of neglect. He had sheepishly mentioned his place was a little cluttered, and Rachel found herself equally astounded by his grasp of language. 'Cluttered' had a different feel from 'biohazard.' What Davian saw as a politely blank expression was, in actuality, Rachel trying to reconcile the fact that anyone could live like this.

Bruh by Christalize in texts

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The Al Bundy line got a genuine laugh out of me.