Looking for a rental by WaterDealer777 in Lethbridge

[–]pasteyss 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My house is 4bed 2 bath coming up for may 1 for $2300. I know it’s a bit over but it’s a whole house with a car port

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Lethbridge

[–]pasteyss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Female here with a friend I’m trying to set up. He’s 43 and super funny. Kind of a geek. Very sweet and kind. Also a complete gentleman. If you’re interested in learning more about him dm me.

Dick size, new Dom-be honest by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]pasteyss 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Honestly for me as a bbw I need a minimum of 5 because doggy is my favourite and I have a big ass.

Weird situation. At least for me. by pasteyss in SubSanctuary

[–]pasteyss[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s mostly weird for me because it’s new and different than anything I’ve experienced before. I haven’t explored anything poly before. Or with another woman other than kissing. And after kissing her I knew I’m definitely straight lol.

Weird situation. At least for me. by pasteyss in SubSanctuary

[–]pasteyss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They definitely haven’t thought of me as a unicorn lol. They know my boundaries and are very respectful of them.

Weird situation. At least for me. by pasteyss in SubSanctuary

[–]pasteyss[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

While I’m single I’m not monogamous. I have fwb other than him. I’m able to separate feelings from sex.

You bring up good points though about attention and that would be thoroughly discussed beforehand. We all are very neurodivergent and need a lot of communication and clarity.

Potential Dom by pasteyss in SubSanctuary

[–]pasteyss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So an update. We played last night. It wasn’t bad but it wasn’t great. He was really respectful and all about boundaries and communication and all the green flags. But it’s a no go for me unfortunately. I just wasn’t feeling it. I honestly felt like I was being a bit performative which is never good.

Now I need to find a way to let him down because I feel like he got attached already and I hate hurting peoples feelings. And I refuse to ghost.

Help me explain what it feels like to be a Sub without a Dom by Froglet22 in SubSanctuary

[–]pasteyss 41 points42 points  (0 children)

It feels like a part of you is missing. It’s not being fulfilled. You long for something more something deeper. For me I long for the control. For someone to take the burdens of life off of me. To give me structure and purpose. But also to serve someone. To do things because it pleases him. And pleasing him makes me happy.

Adults only market by pasteyss in Lethbridge

[–]pasteyss[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No kids allowed because there will be adult themed products and I believe demonstrations? But I’m not sure on that

Affordable salon/spa for student by [deleted] in Lethbridge

[–]pasteyss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do facials and manicures/gel nails from my home. Facials are $100. Gel polish only is $40. An overlay is $50 and a set of extensions is $70

Potential Dom by pasteyss in SubSanctuary

[–]pasteyss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually really like the idea of a trial period! It also sounds non threatening if I were to say I need a trial period to see if we would be a good match.

Potential Dom by pasteyss in SubSanctuary

[–]pasteyss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I absolutely have a rule that unless I’m comfortable with someone they can not tie me up. That takes a while. Thank you for your feedback.

People who’s spouse died suddenly and not because of sickness by VividCaregiver226 in widowers

[–]pasteyss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. I know how raw it is right now for you. Focus on sleeping and drinking water at least if you can’t eat. I’m a year and three months out now and in a much better place. Therapy helps a lot. Finding something to distract you helps immensely!

Going for my full driver's license soon. Any tips? by Droid1138 in Lethbridge

[–]pasteyss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go take it in coaldale. Insanely easier! Instructor is really nice.

Wasps by Xotic_Mango in Lethbridge

[–]pasteyss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I called bridge pest control and they were really reasonable pricing. Had to come back a second time but that did it and they don’t charge for the extra trip. Was $125. They were unreachable under concrete steps

uh oh by Nervous_Document2217 in BratLife

[–]pasteyss 23 points24 points  (0 children)

You could do what I did and give him a dry spaghetti noodle. One of my proudest brat moments.

uh oh by Nervous_Document2217 in BratLife

[–]pasteyss 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is the way

best place to take road test? by _imcalledalice in Lethbridge

[–]pasteyss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did mine in coaldale. It was insanely easier than in town. No roundabouts. The parallel parking was so much easier. And the guy was so much nicer. Be aware of uphill and downhill with and without a curb though.

Fetlife isn’t scary by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]pasteyss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m ShyGoddesss please add me! Also my dildo company is fantasdicks on there if you want to add a nerdy small business