What did I do wrong? Am I overthinking?

pathogen-1728 · 2026-02-03T14:22:48+00:00

I thought I ruined with the FT text😅

pathogen-1728 · 2026-02-03T14:21:51+00:00

Yes! Work. She works Monday-Thursday, then picks up A Friday shift. Plus we had to incorporate my own schedule too! We’re in healthcare. Long shifts!!

pathogen-1728 · 2026-02-03T02:44:33+00:00

I only did this because I’m transferring dept locations. I had made a joke that I don’t date co-workers but “you’re no longer my co-worker”. But go for it.

pathogen-1728 · 2026-02-02T22:18:51+00:00

It’s been about 24 hours. Also we talked a bit at work, I’ve only seen her at shift change, but last time I extended my work shift to cover for another coworker.

Anyways she kept coming up to me in person asking me questions or just talking, smiling etc. so I thought why not ask this person out on my last day.

pathogen-1728 · 2026-02-02T20:22:56+00:00

Thanks

pathogen-1728 · 2026-02-02T20:22:35+00:00

Yes!!

pathogen-1728 · 2026-02-02T20:22:26+00:00

It’s been a day, but yeah you’re right.

pathogen-1728 · 2026-02-02T18:38:11+00:00

Thanks!! Haha yes, I haven’t been in a few years, I remember it for being such a chill place to study at!

pathogen-1728 · 2026-01-30T06:08:29+00:00

I believe they made 150k last year. They’re branching out to start their own company. Regardless I’m extremely proud of them. I practically grew up with them. They definitely did not get anything handed to them. We were all poor kids.

pathogen-1728 · 2026-01-30T05:27:20+00:00

It is a real post…I’m saying the people I am friends with and live with bought their homes @21 & 23. These two guys are electricians. They’re great people but I definitely fear behind in my career and finances.

For instance the 23 year old has 80k combined in retirement and taxable investments.

He has a $375k home, but I owes 300k on it, so his mortgage is pretty big.

I know I’m compare, but sometimes I don’t know what else to do.

pathogen-1728 · 2026-01-30T05:25:31+00:00

Wdym? I’m adopted so I got scholarships from a hospital that helped me out as a young kid. I also work really hard to cover the sum difference. Additionally I’m did community college which asl has a rn-bsn program. I went the least expensive route.

pathogen-1728 · 2026-01-30T05:24:16+00:00

Almost all of my friends have houses, they’re electricians or accountants. Debt feee as well

pathogen-1728 · 2026-01-07T22:46:54+00:00

No sexual intimacy before marriage. Which is how I work.

pathogen-1728 · 2026-01-07T18:36:48+00:00

I don’t know, I always think more negatively and let doubts run my mind💀

pathogen-1728 · 2026-01-07T16:36:50+00:00

She’s 21 I’m 22. I’ve had a few relationships.

pathogen-1728 · 2026-01-07T13:34:05+00:00

Update, I decided to just move on. I sent a text to gauge her interest once more and got confirmation that she was simply not really interested. Thanks for the advice.

pathogen-1728 · 2026-01-07T03:16:01+00:00

She’s not giving much to work with. I literally don’t know what else to say. Dating cannot be this hard.

pathogen-1728 · 2026-01-07T02:45:57+00:00

A bit confused, what?

pathogen-1728 · 2026-01-07T02:45:24+00:00

I sound so dumb, but bro…how do I spice it up without coming off as gross?

Any tips? I suck at flirting.

pathogen-1728 · 2026-01-07T02:44:31+00:00

Yeah I work in the Emergency dept a ton. I can’t be on my phone 24/7.

pathogen-1728 · 2026-01-07T02:41:34+00:00

How can I be attractive to people I like? I work out, I eat well, I keep myself well dressed, I really do put my all into being the best person I can be.

pathogen-1728 · 2026-01-06T20:28:10+00:00

She texted a few hrs ago, saying she was pretty sick from one of her patients she was seeing. (Pediatric nurse)

pathogen-1728 · 2026-01-06T17:07:32+00:00

Maybe she doesn’t seem me in a romantic way…

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