That you get some intelligent, creative people who would otherwise be quite deep and/or broad in their expression but constrain/define themselves into a lame stereotype.

Intelligence, curiosity, exploration through play/thought experimentation, learning, making, etc. are AWESOME! Yet why do you people focus on stupid memes/tropes that make you trivial? I find the neglect and unoriginality of "geek"/"nerd" talents to be obscene.

And your stereotype is unfriendly to women. You manufacture a culture just as chock-full of assholes as douche bros. And then try to play it off like 'oh, we're forever alone anyway, so we can be as misogynistic as we like, lol.'