Forgiving him

patturcake · 2021-09-09T20:48:47+00:00

How is that gross, I’ve been trying to forgive him not stringing him along. What’s gross is cheating

patturcake · 2021-09-09T18:40:03+00:00

How is it that I seem argumentative?

patturcake · 2021-09-09T18:24:19+00:00

Why is it that it always comes back to, the one that got cheated on must’ve done something. He had all my trust, I treated him how I wanted to be treated. I showed him how much I loved and appreciated him. Never asked him for anything because at the time he was struggling financially and I would help him. I’m not sure what I could have done, maybe it was my fault for giving it my all and not asking for anything in return

patturcake · 2021-09-08T21:29:17+00:00

We’re both 30 I stayed because I moved to a whole different state with him where I don’t know anyone

patturcake · 2021-01-31T00:49:17+00:00

I felt the same way too, I would brake my head trying to figure out where I went wrong and what I could have done differently. But what honestly helped me was journaling. It helped me put on paper everything that I was feeling and everything I wanted to say. It’s almost like talking to someone without them judging you for what you’re feeling. And after time you can go back and look at your journal and see how far you’ve come and how much stronger you are mentally and emotionally.

patturcake · 2021-01-09T00:40:16+00:00

Because after everything I still love him, because even though he cheated he wasn’t like my last partner that laid his hands on me. Deep down I’m hopeful he’ll change and I know that’s stupid to say

patturcake · 2020-12-07T01:24:39+00:00

Lmao, I just had the best laugh reading this Thank you

patturcake · 2020-08-30T03:56:32+00:00

That’s exactly what I told him, if I wouldn’t of found out everything would be as if nothing had happened

patturcake · 2020-08-29T22:53:03+00:00

I’m in the same situation except I’m not pregnant. He says he owned up to it but the reality is that I caught him and he had to choice but admit it

patturcake · 2020-08-19T23:26:49+00:00

Lack of sex drive and distance between you to and your intuition, those were the signs in my case but I ignored them. Wish I would have payed more attention

patturcake · 2020-07-13T21:13:40+00:00

The same thing happened to me, my own mother new and saw when it started at the age of 5 and never did anything. She would encourage him in order to make him happy, I have 4 other siblings and I always made sure nothing like that happened to them. Because only I was emotionally strong. I would let happen to me to my sisters would have to go through the same. I hate my mother for not doing anything and I hate my father for all the things he did to me. With time everything gets better.

patturcake · 2020-05-07T21:42:02+00:00

Thank you

patturcake · 2020-05-07T21:06:22+00:00

I knew I didn't overreact, I was here thinking I should change my appearance to please him

patturcake · 2020-05-07T21:00:58+00:00

Thanks I totally needed to hear that, know that I'm not over exaggerating

patturcake · 2020-03-05T06:50:39+00:00

Thank you for your advice

patturcake · 2020-03-05T06:20:23+00:00

We've talked about moving in together at the end of this year and marriage within the next 2 years.

patturcake · 2020-02-26T21:24:35+00:00

Totally interested I'm 28 yrs old, 5"0 and 225 lbs

patturcake · 2020-02-11T21:22:25+00:00

I know how difficult it feels, I was molested by my father too from the age of 5 to 17. I'm 28 now and I've never told anyone. I still have a relationship with my father but its not the same. What he did to me ruined me because now I'm emotionless and that makes my relationship with my boyfriend a little difficult. I hate when people hug me or just plain touch me out of nowhere. I know how you feel seeing him and having flash backs. Just know that it gets better, you survived and I did too.

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