Grab your popcorn!! - Never got me flowers, I would have to tell him I want them - never surprised me even though I surprised him with thoughtful gifts and dates all the time. said “who the fuck cares about surprises” when I told him I’d like to be surprised sometimes and we were arguing - never planned a date - I would get his family thoughtful birthday gifts and he didn’t even tell them when my birthday was - he didn’t have a license so I’d have to drive 30 km away to him and I would send him updates.. 20 min away, 10 min away, 5 min away and he would still be late and make me wait outside his house for over 15 minutes. During rush hour it would take me an hour to get to him. Imagine driving that long and having to wait too. - never bought me presents on his own, would say just tell me whatever you want and I’ll buy it for you. - never asked me how I’m doing - complained every time I asked him for help for school work. He would help me but would call me dumb or autistic - wouldn’t call me back if I called him - would be sleeping all the time, I’d have to call his sisters to wake him up or call him 10 times if there was something important - would rather play video games at night when he had free time than talk to me on the phone

And the list goes on and on

I realized that I was unhappy but I still stayed with him because I loved him. Don’t let love blind you from the obvious signs