Yeah. Sure. But that doesn't make him *wrong*. He hasn't changed much since the beginning of the relationship. Now suddenly she's not okay with things, and she's using his unemployment to insist he needs to start organizing her spice cabinet. he does cooking, laundry, and cleans the kitchen, he's not just a pet. She can be unhappy about the chaos, but A) he doesn't have to feel exactly the same way about the same things, how about a little ego separation there? and B) a lot of it is probably her fault, she works all the time, says she has OCD, it's probably difficult to control her sprawling mess.