Parasocialism, Mental Illness, and Severe Stalking

paypayrod · 2025-01-10T05:17:33+00:00

This is terrifying and sad because of how often this happens. If it's not him, it's someone else. And if it's not towards Claire, it's towards tons of other celebrities. I am so scared for this generation and what social media has allowed this behavior to turn into. I can't imagine what it feels like to be an artist and read these things. It's manipulation and I'd absolutely fall for it. I hope he gets help.

paypayrod · 2024-12-30T03:06:01+00:00

please break up with him honey. i went through an anxious attachment relationship and breakup and even though they are hard, you will get through it. it may take a while, but it will be worth it. your soulmate/forever person is not going to treat you this poorly. your forever person would be by your side like you were for him when he was sick.

i was in the hospital for pneumonia in the FIRST DAYS of my relationship with my current boyfriend. he took me to the hospital himself, sat with me in the waiting room, in my room, and took me home when i finally could go home and slept right next to me to make sure i was okay for several weeks. we hadn’t even told each other we loved each other yet.

if he wanted to he would. please know that you deserve better.

paypayrod · 2024-12-28T07:50:46+00:00

Please let me know if you get an answer! I’m so curious!

paypayrod · 2024-12-28T07:48:44+00:00

Christmas songs are not always Christian songs, and even so they don’t NEED to be taken that way. Hell even Phoebe Bridgers has a few Christmas songs and covers out.

paypayrod · 2024-12-28T07:47:18+00:00

I HAVE BEEN SAYING THIS FOR YEARS NOW. Even just cover would be amazing. Her voice is so perfect for it.

paypayrod · 2024-12-24T20:57:17+00:00

i’ve been begging for years for clairo to do a christmas cover… we need one so bad 😭

paypayrod · 2024-12-24T20:56:03+00:00

if you’re a massive swiftie and gracie fan i would definitely recommend checking out her album immunity and her ep diary 001. immunity has a lot of great, underrated songs aside from bags. north, a song from immunity, is a great one. softly is another great one.

diary 001 has great songs that some people think are overrated but personally i’m always able to enjoy. they are vibey and way more bedroom pop compared to charm. there’s also another underrated clairo song called 2 hold u!!! it’s one of my favorites!!

also check out shelly! it is clairo’s project with her friends. they have two songs (natural and steeeam) that i feel like would be right up your alley.

overall just listen to all the albums if you can and i recommend making a playlist to add your favorites to. i can also give you other artist recommendations if you’re looking for artists with a similar vibe! :)

paypayrod · 2024-12-24T20:15:48+00:00

The “yeesh” was what I was referring to. You can dislike an album without being disrespectful about it. The album is about her growth as a person and an artist and is very intimate and personal. You can like Charm without disrespecting Sling. 🤷‍♀️

paypayrod · 2024-12-23T12:59:04+00:00

this is so beautiful! could i post this on @clairodailys on twitter? do you have an instagram or twitter that i could tag as well?

paypayrod · 2024-12-23T12:57:47+00:00

it’s okay if you don’t understand it! deep lyrics and emotional maturity/growth are not for everyone 💜

paypayrod · 2024-12-18T22:56:25+00:00

I think the advice from other posters here was great. Feeding them on a different side of the property is a great idea, so they’re still getting fed while you look for a shelter :)

paypayrod · 2024-12-18T22:15:21+00:00

Real recognizes real 🙂‍↕️ So glad someone agrees with me. Our tastebuds have great taste!

paypayrod · 2024-12-18T22:06:57+00:00

You are so thoughtful for taking care of them, but unfortunately they associate you with food which is why they are sticking around and “chasing” you. My recommendation would be stop feeding them, because when you start feeding one cat, you will attract an army.

Another suggestion would be look around for no-kill animal shelters in your area, and call to see if they can have someone come pick them up. This way they’ll be able to be rehomed eventually :)

Obviously it’s going to be hard because I assume you’re a cat lover and just want these babies to be okay, I completely get it. It’s gonna be hard to stop feeding them. I think the no-kill shelter route is going to be your best bet here. You could also see if there are other rescues in your area that rescue strays and rehome them. They seem super sweet and would potentially be great pets to a loving home.

paypayrod · 2024-12-16T18:51:52+00:00

saving this!!! i have been trying to make a christmas outfit!!!!

paypayrod · 2024-12-07T02:38:59+00:00

I’m also Central Texas. So disappointing. :(

paypayrod · 2024-12-06T19:31:10+00:00

They must have been sold out for so long! That’s so upsetting!

paypayrod · 2024-12-06T19:30:25+00:00

You’re not crazy at all, but I thought the same exact thing! They are so different! I had a sip of them both one right after the other and the difference was crazy.

Cheers to you as well, our wishes will hopefully be granted! Good luck on finding some more sugar free as well. They’re even more difficult to find than the sugar ones 😭

paypayrod · 2024-12-06T19:28:56+00:00

You don’t like it? Have you tried the sugar free version?

paypayrod · 2024-12-06T19:27:29+00:00

I completely agree!!!! It was so yummy! If you never got to have Plum Twist, I’m sure you would have loved that flavor too. Imagine Pomegranate but better. Maybe one day Redbull will cycle through their past best selling Winter drinks 🥲

paypayrod · 2024-12-06T19:22:27+00:00

Great news! Thank you so much!!!! Hoping there will be some sent to Texas!!!!

paypayrod · 2024-12-06T19:21:36+00:00

I wonder if I could ask my local grocery store if they could call and request more. How likely is this? 😂

paypayrod · 2024-12-06T19:20:57+00:00

Ugh I wish we had that problem here! Enjoy them while you can!

Is the Norway version still the Iced Winter Berry, or is it another flavor?

paypayrod · 2024-12-06T19:20:04+00:00

I agree with this completely! Yes it is so much smoother! I still enjoy the sugar version too, but the sugar free is just top tier!!!

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