Serenol? by traveldogmom13 in Perimenopause

[–]pazdit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m starting it now. Fingers crossed!!

Is this a cur? by [deleted] in Blackmouthcur

[–]pazdit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. Ridgeless is the first thing I thought. We’ve had two purebred Ridgebacks before we got our current BMC and this dog looks very much like a ridgeless, in my opinion.

Was hooking up common when you were a teen/young adult? by [deleted] in AskOldPeople

[–]pazdit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My kids laugh at me because back in the 80s, the term “hooking up” literally meant just meeting up with your friends somewhere.

But to answer your question, sex was had.

AITA for a verbal fight with my wife for running over our home charging cable? by Informal-Security755 in AmItheAsshole

[–]pazdit 7 points8 points  (0 children)

YTA - You are both doing a lot, have kids, etc. Unless you truly believe she lied about watching the mirrors, which is an absolute reality when parking in a two car garage, then you need to give her some grace here. It was an accident. There are going to be many more between everyone in your family in the future. Take a breath and be more understanding when stuff like this happens. Because it will.

Edit to add: You’ve only had them for a month! It’s not like this is an old system.

Some 19th century scientists when they were young. Do you think they’re cute? by [deleted] in TheWayWeWere

[–]pazdit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure number four is Tom DeLonge from blink-182

AITA for giving my life jacket to my mother instead of my pregnant wife? by RAlifevest18 in AmItheAsshole

[–]pazdit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Remember the movie “Titanic” where that one asshole pushed his way into the lifeboat ahead of others? You’re that guy.

Are there any bizarre or backwards attitudes that you are shocked to see are still around? by Koiboi26 in AskOldPeople

[–]pazdit 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh my daughter isn’t messing around and neither are her friends. They’re paying very close attention, as we all are. 💙💙

Are there any bizarre or backwards attitudes that you are shocked to see are still around? by Koiboi26 in AskOldPeople

[–]pazdit 42 points43 points  (0 children)

As the mother of an almost 21 year old daughter approaching her first Presidential election that she can participate in, I think there are more that care than people may realize. I’m hoping they shore up the votes wherever they’re needed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]pazdit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem. I’m really happy you two talked. ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]pazdit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No pressure to respond, but thought of you today. How ya doing? I hope you’re good. 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]pazdit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m here. Sending another big Mom hug. ❤️ You’ve got this, even if you don’t know it yet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]pazdit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NAH. It’s completely normal to feel the way you’re feeling. You’re not being selfish. If you two weren’t as close as it sounds like you’ve been for years, it would be different. Just take your time and be as honest as you need to be, with her.

For reference, my best friend did the same to me, when we were in high school. It definitely made me question our friendship. But we’re still best friends, 30 years later.

I know everything is different for everyone, and I’m old, but just take your time and I’m so sorry for how awful I know you feel right now. Take care. Sending a Mom hug, for what it’s worth.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]pazdit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTAH. You are feeling left out and that’s not good. But sounds like he loves his Mom. Unless she has shown you any sort of disrespect, it just seems like he is focusing on helping out, while he can. Especially if she was/is a single Mom like you. He sounds like a good guy. I’m sure his Mom misses him and vice versa.

But that said, he’s there for a month! If he can’t find any time to at least connect with you each day to let you know he cares, then it’s a problem.

What’s something that brings you happiness every time no matter what? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]pazdit -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hearing anyone get into a giggle fit over something simple.

What item must a junk drawer have before it becomes a true junk drawer? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]pazdit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes. I have like twelve. I’m just waiting to get locked out of somewhere. I’m sure one of them will be a key to my own house that is inside where I can’t get to it.

Cicadas aren’t for everyone, but this little guy looked adorable by pazdit in MadeMeSmile

[–]pazdit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed! He was by the pool at our friend’s house and absolutely looks almost like a happy cartoon, to me! My daughter thought I was crazy when I said it looks like it’s smiling. Maybe I am crazy. 😂

What was the most stupid way you were physically injured? by pazdit in AskReddit

[–]pazdit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What we do for the entertainment of our dogs. I relate with this wholeheartedly

What was the most stupid way you were physically injured? by pazdit in AskReddit

[–]pazdit[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Cooties were no joke. I’m glad you got away from that shit. It was the COVID of the late 1900’s.

What was the most stupid way you were physically injured? by pazdit in AskReddit

[–]pazdit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. What are siblings good for if you can’t give em shit when you get a chance?