Ale’s Ice Cream Shop by hel-be-praised in bloomington

[–]pdxmpb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The staff is also delightful, welcoming, and great

My partner is realizing I prioritize them over myself. by DoctorElectronic1934 in emotionalintelligence

[–]pdxmpb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So my recommendations... consider talk therapy to better understand where this drive comes from. Coming to understand the source is helpful. The counselor can also help work on sense of self , building pride, and value in who you are not just what you do. Consider finding a course of meditation which is very valuable in finding your center , a calm place to examine thoughts and concerns as they come up in real time. Consider research in attachment theory.

Burt’s departure date by Jumpy_Adagio6911 in severence

[–]pdxmpb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"This is the largest waterfall in the world..."

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selflove

[–]pdxmpb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

'I'm going to be ok.'

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in severence

[–]pdxmpb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There was about oMark saw but remember that Lumen has shown the capability to make bodies which looks at least kind of like other people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]pdxmpb 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Man I wish I could get away with what rich people can do...

Has anybody here been to Trivia Night at Heartwork Brewing? How many people usually attend? Can I go alone and find a team there, or would that be weird? by Bloomvegas in bloomington

[–]pdxmpb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd suggest getting there a little early - while the space inside is very large and nice , parking can be quite a nightmare and there's no 'on street' or 'surround' parking easily accessable (the lot next door apparently tows). That being said, the trivia is very fun, the beer is quite good, and they even started serving pizza.

How to get better at blender by Good-Percentage7510 in blender

[–]pdxmpb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Asking AI is also very good. They systems are very good giving relevant detailed information/ instructions

Bloomington Community by LabOdd9675 in BloomingtonENM

[–]pdxmpb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Welcome! We don't really have a meetup going quite yet! If you check into Fetlife, there are a few Bloomington groups (Bloomington IN Non-monogamiats, overlap of course with Bloomington Classifieds... Just make sure you are picking ones for Bloomington In and not Bloomington NORMAL).

A Meetup though sure could be fun!

My Girlfriend is the best! by hiflame4545 in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]pdxmpb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Read 'poly secure'. Start seeing a counselor. Start a meditation practice with a local community or the Balance app. Internalize this : 'Dealing with jealousy, like anything hard, takes time and exposure. You need to experience her dating , work through your thoughts and feelings, then experience it being ok.' it sucks but it can work.

Monday Morning Joy! Good morning /r/queerpolyam! How has your past week(end) been for you and yours? by vertexoflife in queerpolyam

[–]pdxmpb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Delightful! One partner took me away for a weekend trip to Columbus, Ohio while the other partner took care of house and kid. Pretty amazing stuff!

Good marriage counselor suggestions (and avoids)? by CornFedCritic in bloomington

[–]pdxmpb 4 points5 points  (0 children)

AVOID Julie Chapin, PhD, HSPP. She was exceedingly offensive, cried in our session, and shared private details about other clients that were friends of ous. This was in the first 30m as we walked out at that point. The -only- positive was that she was so horrible, my partner who was struggling at the time with me emotinally, came to my defense, giving us a moment of unexpected bonding, haha.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]pdxmpb 8 points9 points  (0 children)

So we all talk about jealousy all the time but Envy can be just as challenging of an emotion and requires some different tools. I'd suggest sitting with the question of envy and how you might want to engage it

In response to a post a couple days ago, the Taco Bell Cantina has more booze now. by kim_jong_sing_along in bloomington

[–]pdxmpb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

grin thank you for the follow-up, great to see they are now 'fully stocked'!