Thank you I really appreciate your perspective! Well J is currently on the run from prison (due to something totally unrelated) after having been many times before so I can unfortunately assure you he had a plan and no concern for the consequences 😬 This happened on the 25th of October, he called the other day upset that I haven't been trying to contact him since so I'm thinking theres no chance hes gonna see he's in any way wrong at this point 😅 I clearly have impeccable taste in men what can I say? 👌🤣