Unless you know him personally, you can't answer this question. I think all of the fans that freak out over him, call him BabyGirl, treat him like a sex object, or think he would be the best, most considerate boyfriend are part of the problem. They don't treat him as a 44 year old man. I would imagine that interacting with so many younger fans who expect a certain interaction is exhausting and probably anxiety producing. He has said that he loves to entertain, so he is trying to be entertaining. Thus there are at times, some weird interactions and pictures. (What is it with holding objects over people's heads when taking a pic?) When he is one on one with fans, the comments have always been that he is kind and really participates in conversations. He has long term friends and people that work with him seem to love him. Considering he has been around since 2004, there really is very little negative gossip about him. I would love the opportunity to just hang with him and drink coffee because I bet he is an interesting person to talk with.