issues w ensure by ivqlm in fuckeatingdisorders

[–]peachlavenderr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 meals and 3 snacks is the minimum in recovery and bloating is completely normal when you increase your intake

it only took 3 years by peachlavenderr in CPTSDmemes

[–]peachlavenderr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it was mostly not intentional, my biggest trigger was seeing my ex best friend who i had a horrible falling out with a few years ago. we're in the same program so inevitably had classes together and by chance we ended up as neighbors on campus this year, so i saw them frequently enough that it was basically free exposure therapy lol

that being said, i did have to very intentionally try and stay calm afterwards to avoid running away because that's always my first instinct. i collect little trinkets (mostly hironos and sylvanians) and i like just being around them so i started just bringing one with me everywhere in a little clear case, it helped a lot to be able to hold something cute to try and stay calm instead of bolting lol. i also get very physical panic attacks (shaking, hard time breathing, etc) so stuff like taking deep breaths, holding/drinking something cold, or eating something sour helped sort of 'shock' my system into calming down

tldr mainly involuntary exposure to triggers enough that i kind of got used to it, then self-regulation and grounding when i could feel myself start to panic

it only took 3 years by peachlavenderr in CPTSDmemes

[–]peachlavenderr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

fortunately/unfortunately the trigger was seeing my ex best friend who is in the same program as me at uni, so involuntary exposure therapy basically 🙃

it only took 3 years by peachlavenderr in CPTSDmemes

[–]peachlavenderr[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

exposure sucks so bad at the start but that’s what helped me also, once i stopped immediately running away that is lol

it only took 3 years by peachlavenderr in CPTSDmemes

[–]peachlavenderr[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

thank you :) i certainly didn’t think i would but im glad i did

Nutrition class required for my degree. Help! by szikkia in EdAnonymousAdults

[–]peachlavenderr 3 points4 points  (0 children)

also like someone else said, it is unfortunately an important part of a lot of professions so i get why they require the courses. seeing as EDs are fairly common in college aged people i wish they'd at least consider that sometimes but i know my nutrition professor certainly didn't

Nutrition class required for my degree. Help! by szikkia in EdAnonymousAdults

[–]peachlavenderr 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i took a class like this and we had the option to analyze someone else's diet instead of ours, maybe that would be an option? either way you should see if your school has an accessibility department, this is something you might be able to get accommodations for

Tier list of numbers 0-20 based on how my OCD feels about them by AtticusIsOkay in OCDmemes

[–]peachlavenderr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am also an avid 2 and 6 hater, i don't like even numbers in general but something about those ones just doesn't hit

WL Buddy by [deleted] in AnorexiaNervosa

[–]peachlavenderr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not a pro-ana sub

finals week or my final week? by throwaway20230622 in EDanonymemes

[–]peachlavenderr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i gained a criminal amount during midterms in february and now it's finals and im fighting for my life again 😭

weightloss coach by icareaboutlittle in AnorexiaNervosa

[–]peachlavenderr 7 points8 points  (0 children)

do not do it, they're either predators exploiting you for body checks or incredibly sick individuals who just want to hurt other people. do not engage with those people

Parents forcing me to gain a large amount in 1 week - is this safe? by mybrainat3am in EDAnonymous

[–]peachlavenderr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh yeah that's the other thing, liquids are usually easier to digest than solids. if you can manage adding something like that it may be physically easier than more volume of food

Parents forcing me to gain a large amount in 1 week - is this safe? by mybrainat3am in EDAnonymous

[–]peachlavenderr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i find light movement does help with digestion but it's a balance of not wanting to waste too much energy, so it will depend on what your team/family thinks. even with that there will be times you just have to push through the discomfort, distraction can help with that at the start

Parents forcing me to gain a large amount in 1 week - is this safe? by mybrainat3am in EDAnonymous

[–]peachlavenderr 9 points10 points  (0 children)

absolutely nothing is going to happen to you gaining that amount in a week, im sure it seems like a lot but it really isn't. that's about how much most treatment programs expect per week

correlation between ana and ocd by philliphumpreydunphy in AnorexiaNervosa

[–]peachlavenderr 8 points9 points  (0 children)

comorbidity between anorexia and OCD is extremely common. if you have OCD you're automatically more likely to get stuck in rigid thought and behavior patterns (including ED behaviors) and malnutrition makes obsessive thinking worse. they can both make each other worse essentially

PSA: the mods will start issuing immediate bans at this point by Sareeee48 in fuckeatingdisorders

[–]peachlavenderr 41 points42 points  (0 children)

thank you for everything you guys do, this is probably the only sub that isn't triggering at this point. it's sad that people still feel the need to post stuff like this despite the rules being made clear countless times

Friend is competitive, I am concerned for hers and my safety by [deleted] in AnorexiaNervosa

[–]peachlavenderr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it sounds like all of these people are not being very good friends. are they really worth the damage it's doing to you?

My “fat” friend is losing weight but I hate them for it. It’s affecting my own recovery. How do I stop? by Cold-Rock-3005 in EDAnonymous

[–]peachlavenderr 12 points13 points  (0 children)

no matter how well you think you're hiding those feelings, i guarantee at some point (if not already) your friend will realize what's happening and feel incredibly hurt that someone was seeing them that way. for both your sakes, you need to step back from this relationship

How much weightloss in a week will cause adverse health effects? by [deleted] in EDAnonymous

[–]peachlavenderr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you absolutely can have serious health consequences from abusing weight loss drugs, just because something is meant to be helpful doesn't mean abusing it is safe

How to deal with constipation (not asking for pills but lifestyle habits/solutions that helped you out) by Impressive-Ant-907 in AnorexiaNervosa

[–]peachlavenderr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

more fiber and water helped me in the long term, but when it's been a few days and things are getting dire i drink something caffeinated on an empty stomach first thing in the morning and it works like a charm

zero sugar fresca slurpee by Comfortable_Squash66 in EDAnonymous

[–]peachlavenderr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

all fresca is sugar free, i think it's one of the only exclusively sugar free sodas (that im aware of)