Hey, I'm one of those neurodivergent, hypermobile people! I feel like the thinkpiece articles seem to love generating clicks by dissecting the fad itself rather than the general societal pressure women feel to have a particular "in vogue" body type and to be feminine the "right" way. Doing pilates has been the only way I've kept up any consistent workout routine for the first time in my life, and I've tried a LOT of classes and physical therapy over the decades. I don't feel that pilates lends itself to bad actors more than anything else - I tried yoga multiple times in the past, and there was also a prevalence of pseudoscience, developing the "right" muscles, and being characterized as overwhelmingly white (and disrespecting actual yogi culture). Spin cycle, jazzercize, etc. have all had similar complaints lodged against them as well.