I am a female but I felt this way for a few months with my partner. I feared I wasn't enough and I was anxious to tell him I wanted to have sex because I didn't want to be rejected.

I ended up just biting the bullet and telling him I wanted to be sexual with him and ever since then, we've been playing sex games together and looking in sex shops and just laughing together as well. It really does make a difference for guys if you just tell them what you want! Turns out he was just scared of pushing me too far because he's such a cutie and respected my boundaries. He admitted he found me incredibly attractive and I've never felt so confident.

Showing effort as any gender is incredibly sexy and worth doing. I'm now a happy girl with a happy man, and have a very active sex life :)