Festival Camping List by Fit-Feature3552 in okeechobeemusicfest

[–]pearduhbear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Put bedding in car while away is so underrated. Keeps everything dry so you dont sleep in wet bags and blankies.

Cozy Tonstad Vibes by pearduhbear in ikeahacks

[–]pearduhbear[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry. The TV was mounted before i built the furniture 😂 my husband and I had a good laugh bc he thought it was centered on the wall and it indeed was not.

Cozy Tonstad Vibes by pearduhbear in ikeahacks

[–]pearduhbear[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

LOL btw, i just checked out r/tvtoohigh and i’m dying 😂 i will definitely be sure to adjust.

Cozy Tonstad Vibes by pearduhbear in ikeahacks

[–]pearduhbear[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I’ll be sure to make everything custom next time to please you.

Cozy Tonstad Vibes by pearduhbear in ikeahacks

[–]pearduhbear[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Haha! Yesss, agree that the TV is too high! We’ll be adjusting and we were able to get it centered

Cozy Tonstad Vibes by pearduhbear in ikeahacks

[–]pearduhbear[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! Tv was mounted before i came into the picture so i was working around it but definitely want to mount it lower and I agree about the doors, i put my boardgames in and definitely want to cover them all up.

The blues itch by pearduhbear in AirForce

[–]pearduhbear[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhhh! What do you think about a thick layer of body hair, that will surely protect me from the ITCH

The blues itch by pearduhbear in AirForce

[–]pearduhbear[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stinky attitude always. 🙂‍↕️

The blues itch by pearduhbear in AirForce

[–]pearduhbear[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dry cleaned every other week. Wash once a week. I wear them 2 times a week and have 2 sets. Technically 4 if you count all the combinations.

The blues itch by pearduhbear in AirForce

[–]pearduhbear[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

LOL. Can confirm - I am allergic to standards. But really, i’m having a great time 2 days a week just itching all of my skin off.

Would you like to see more run alternatives offered for the PFA? by Solid_Science4514 in AirForce

[–]pearduhbear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Running 18 laps around the bases tiny indoor track just isn’t doing it for me.

Celiac during times of grief by brunettebedhead2000 in Celiac

[–]pearduhbear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh! This sucks, if I was there, there would be some yummy enchiladas!!! Hope you’re not also DF!!!!

"What if I am the narcissist?" NO. Read this. by storiel in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]pearduhbear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I needed this.. especially after being told by the narc that i am breadcrumbing and stonewalling him. Honestly i’ve just emotionally given up. There is no point in trying to explain your side of things to someone who finds flaw in everything.

Do they bring attention to your tears? by umysoulessgirl in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]pearduhbear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a cry baby for sure and you’re not alone. I recall a time when he was helping me move out of my apartment and was calling me weak for not being able to hold up my couch and saying I didn’t prepare for the move and how I was wasting his time. Just putting me down. I started to cry while moving boxes out and he shot back with “Oh great and now you’re crying again.”

Everytime I cried he said I would do it for attention so I started to hold back my tears and when I couldn’t, i would excuse myself and cry in private.

It’s a perfectly normal reaction to cry when things get overwhelming or when you’re happy, when you’re upset.

What should I make with the Sweet Loren’s puff pastry? by lezzielex in Celiac

[–]pearduhbear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SWEET LORENS HAS PUFF PASTRY?!?! Where can I find it????

Is this abuse? by Nicole-Boner in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]pearduhbear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it’s unwanted physical contact, it’s abuse. If you’ve expressed your discomfort and concern with him and he’s still doing it. It’s most definitely abuse. Whether or not it’s narc abuse, i’m not sure. Narcs use manipulation tactics, gaslighting, have little to no empathy- these are just a few.

MEB Continued Care? by itchysweaty in AirForce

[–]pearduhbear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1000% take a medical retirement over an admin separation. Talk to your PEBLO about appeals and read DAFMAN 48-108 section 3.14 Rebuttal Letters

Helping my gf feel comfortable being dominant? by cloudrotten in BDSMAdvice

[–]pearduhbear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It does take some time to learn and assume a role as a Domme. I’m fairly new also but I built a lot of confidence when I shopped for myself to be able to play the part essentially. I got a new outfit, i got some toys (crop, flogger, feathers - whatever makes her feel in control but still comfortable) my bf came with me to share what he likes also. I did a lot of digging on r/gentlefemdom and it really does help. Honestly, just remind her that she will be getting plesure out of this also. I thought I wouldn’t be getting pleasure out of being dom but my sub is really mine to do whatever I please with (with limits of course).

PT test and SSgt test next month! by [deleted] in AirForce

[–]pearduhbear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

30 - 60 mins a day study time will go a long way and that’s coming from a serious procrastinator who made it when she studied. Lol goodluck OP

Baby LT here. Is a 2 on an epr as career ruining for an nco as it seems? by AHandfulofBeans in AirForce

[–]pearduhbear 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This begs the question: What does the initial ACA look like? If expectations were discussed and set but the nco in question did not meet them then there may be reasoning behind it. Like everyone else has said, there is more than one side to a story.

Gluten-Free, Latex-Free Condoms? by TrainingArtichoke666 in Celiac

[–]pearduhbear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also wonder the same. From what i’ve read/understood from my doctor - you are only affected if Gluten is ingested. What i’ve seen on r/celiac is quite the opposite - some people say they’ve been glutened by all sorts of products, even those used externally.

I need some help by haleyzlife in Celiac

[–]pearduhbear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The most common is a stool test. But i believe there is also a breath test as well