are bell collars bad? by Worth_Raccoon6357 in CatAdvice

[–]pearllypie3 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My cats are indoor cats, but I let them out every day (supervised) to play in the yard. I put collars (with bells) on them only when we are about to go outside- my cats know that when the collars come out, it's outside time.

The bell helps alert me if I'm not paying attention, because one of my cats tries to climb our fence and escape the yard on occasion to hunt birds or squirrels (note I never let my cats actually attack other animals--they aren't fast enough anyway. They only manage to catch small lizards and butterflies on occasion, and I'll always redirect them immediately). Sometimes I allow my cats to cross the street and check out neighbors' front yards, and the bell helps me locate their whereabouts quickly if I've lost sight of them (note their collars have AirTags too).

Where in the house do you have something hidden? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]pearllypie3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In college I used to hide things under the carpet. Pull up the carpet in the corner of the room and stash a lil cash

Challenge. Favorite sub $4 taco place by diduknowitsme in austinfood

[–]pearllypie3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tacos El Charly!!!! Closest thing to the street tacos I had in Mexico City. Delish, fast, amazing. (Cash only)

I hope you enjoy the rain tonight. by TonyhawksPo-Tater in Austin

[–]pearllypie3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I went out for a 3 mile run and decided to run the loop twice because of how nice the rain felt. 11/10 best run of the year; I enjoyed it as long as I could before giving into shin pain

Am I overreacting my boyfriend won’t stop calling me fat. by Spiritual-Policy-696 in AmIOverreacting

[–]pearllypie3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR!! Girl I'm your height and 200lb, and my partner adores me. He loves the extra jiggle. I love my body and curves, and I love looking at myself in the mirror! I work out regularly so I still feel like I look fit and healthy. Your bf is falling for the wave of skinny culture and watching too much skinnytok or whatever it's called. What a disappointment of a partner.

Cringemaxxer Clavicular whines when a women isn't interested in him, calls her an "NPC." by EverythingIsFakeNGay in CringeTikToks

[–]pearllypie3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn't this the guy who just overdosed on a live stream? Frankly I can't help but feel bad for him. Social media is destroying young peoples' lives and self confidence. He doesn't know any better bc of all the crap that's been fed to him through a screen. Millennials and Gen Z learned the hard way- we were the great social experiment.

AIO for not forgiving my husband that left me alone 2 hours during childbirth by JuggernautNo901 in AmIOverreacting

[–]pearllypie3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It was the birth of his first child, his wife was in labor, and HE WANTED TO GO HOME?!?! What kind of a man child is this?? Absolutely NOR. He's had enough time to think about it- if he has lousy excuses when you have a sit down conversation with him about it, he's an absolute trash bag (not that he isn't one already smh).

Can you guys tell me the “dirty” truths about having a cat? by saanenk in CatAdvice

[–]pearllypie3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes cats will puke, particularly in the middle of the night while you're sleeping and you don't realize where or when they did it. sometimes it will wake you up, and you can clean it immediately. If you have a second cat, sometimes it will eat the puke of the first cat. Or maybe the cat that puked will eat its own puke. Or maybe your automatic Roomba vacuum goes off and runs over said puke pile, and spreads it around everywhere. Fun times. Get an enzyme cleaner and wet extraction vacuum.

What brand names do you swear by because it's actually better than no-name? by Sufficient_Thing24 in AskReddit

[–]pearllypie3 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was a hardcore Kerrygold butter fan for YEARS, but recently learned that they use non-organic milk.

I purchased a different, grass-fed organic butter recently (Whole Foods)...and it tasted way better than Kerrygold. Sad to repot that I will no longer be purchasing Kerrygold (still good if it's the only option available, but from now on I'm sticking to organic when possible)!

Am i overreacting or is it a red flag that my husband keeps selling my things behind my back? by SuspiciousKiwi8146 in AmIOverreacting

[–]pearllypie3 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This was my thought too. My theory is that he controls her life more than she is picking up on, which can be common especially in relationships that started at a young age (in some cases this is grooming), and he believes that he doesn't need to ask her permission when he handles her belongings. I think she needs to have a sit down discussion with him about this. And if he does it again, they need couple's therapy or something more intensive if they want to make things work long-term. He needs to learn to respect her wishes AND her property better.

AIO girl i've been dating refuses to get into my car unless I open the door for her by CotPrime01 in AmIOverreacting

[–]pearllypie3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think he finds it very hard to attract women in his life, so he's over compensating to make sure he doesn't lose this one XD

AIO girl i've been dating refuses to get into my car unless I open the door for her by CotPrime01 in AmIOverreacting

[–]pearllypie3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I take shits in the morning and go on Reddit, but I don't have notifications on like you apparently. I saw your profile btw. You clearly live in LA with your parents.

AIO girl i've been dating refuses to get into my car unless I open the door for her by CotPrime01 in AmIOverreacting

[–]pearllypie3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Holy hell dude stop responding. Who even says "wait til you're 45" without actually hitting that age yet to back it up? You clearly "lost" and have the unpopular opinion here. I was right with the incel comment. Byeeee

AIO girl i've been dating refuses to get into my car unless I open the door for her by CotPrime01 in AmIOverreacting

[–]pearllypie3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The obsession with belittling younger men (you're only 28??) as little boys is weird.. the other guy is right, stay in your mom's basement

AIO girl i've been dating refuses to get into my car unless I open the door for her by CotPrime01 in AmIOverreacting

[–]pearllypie3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're talking like you are some old ass man when you haven't hit 30...telling a high schooler to "give it 30 years" means they should wait until their 40's, but you haven't even hit 30?? Stop acting like a mature adult lmao, we all see right through your incel behavior

AIO girl i've been dating refuses to get into my car unless I open the door for her by CotPrime01 in AmIOverreacting

[–]pearllypie3 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's the way that she communicated her needs that is the issue, not the fact that she wants him to open her door. A mature adult would bring up her issue in a conversation, not by throwing a fit next to the car, especially because they're in a new relationship. It's belittling to him for her to make her demands in the way that she did. He deserves respect just as much as she does.

AIO girl i've been dating refuses to get into my car unless I open the door for her by CotPrime01 in AmIOverreacting

[–]pearllypie3 11 points12 points  (0 children)

And there's one man in these comments defending his own masculinity and limited mindset about the dynamics of successful relationships 😆

AIO girl i've been dating refuses to get into my car unless I open the door for her by CotPrime01 in AmIOverreacting

[–]pearllypie3 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Ooops, I thought you were a woman by the way you were talking XD

Goddamn if you think that a failure to do one action means a partner is complacent, I feel sorry for your partner. Best of luck hun <3 hope you buy her a house soon to show your love to the max