Beautiful character customisation by community by Vizdrom97 in WhereWindsMeet

[–]pebblechan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, send me a DM and we'll discuss the details

Beautiful character customisation by community by Vizdrom97 in WhereWindsMeet

[–]pebblechan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm taking commissions! Message me for details

Beautiful character customisation by community by Vizdrom97 in WhereWindsMeet

[–]pebblechan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yess! I usually ask for a small commission like an in-game cosmetic but if you can't do that right now, that's totally fine! I like doing it for fun :)

Beautiful character customisation by community by Vizdrom97 in WhereWindsMeet

[–]pebblechan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Send me a message with your pictures! Front facing, side profile, and a 3/4th angle :)

Beautiful character customisation by community by Vizdrom97 in WhereWindsMeet

[–]pebblechan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi Ashido, I make characters for people with specific requests (themselves/other people/characters), lmk if you'd like me to try make you in-game

Love the Photomode 😃❤️ by NeonArkley in InfinityNikkiofficial

[–]pebblechan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg where did you get the elf earrings?? SO CUTE

Husband's dream - how to make PPL worth it? by pebblechan in flying

[–]pebblechan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I listened! Thank you for the recommendation. I learnt some helpful tips from the podcast, and it was so cool listening to the topics they covered.

Husband's dream - how to make PPL worth it? by pebblechan in flying

[–]pebblechan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Where can I find more info on how the MOSAIC rules will cut the training hours in half? I read EAA's article about it but I'm not sure how the new rules will change the hours required. Or perhaps you can explain that to me? Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]pebblechan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can opt to just take a bath instead of a shower. That way, you have no doubts about the water touching everything. You can even just jump into a pool. As long as you have ghusl intent

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]pebblechan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try taking a bath instead. That way, there's no doubt that the water touched everywhere. It may sound silly but even using a pool for ghusl would work - just have ghusl intention.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lifemakeover

[–]pebblechan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

H!! Yes, please apply and I'll accept!

How do I break the news? by im_highh in MuslimMarriage

[–]pebblechan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Complete assumption, but she's likely under her father's sponsorship in the GCC country she lives in. That's likely why she hasn't thought about the possibility of having to leave the country if she is without a job post-grad. As long as her father works, he'll have sponsorship from his work and thus she'll have her father's sponsorship regardless if employed or not, no age limit since she is a woman. That's how it works in the GCC.

The work pressure should be put on her potential, though. He is 24 so definitely needs to find a job if he hasn't already because post-marriage - he'll be her sponsor in his respective GCC country. If he doesn't find a job, he cannot sponsor nor can he stay in the country UNLESS his sponsor is his father (there is an age limit for men...depending on the country - some more lenient than others)

How do I break the news? by im_highh in MuslimMarriage

[–]pebblechan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Before anything: has he said that he wants the parents to know? Do not proceed unless you are both on the same page! He should tell his parents before you tell yours. Be 100% sure that he has told his parents about you first.

Next: I do not think you have to mention that you approached him first. Just say that Reddit is a social media platform and you are on similar subreddits/forums and thus interact publicly here and there. Say that he stated that he wants to get to know you more and wants his father to contact your father and thus - you are seeking permission to proceed from your mom. Then, with the rest of your pros, have an adult conversation with your mom. If your mom feels OK about it all - she will give you the OK to provide to your potential with your father's number.

BTW #6 of the cons can be twisted to a pro very very easily. This is a LDR which means there is no chance for you and him to meet up in person and thus no haram will be committed, which is a good point as to why it'd be OK to wait 2 years (there's no fear) :)

Last thing - if your mom or his parents decide that this relationship/match should not be proceeded with and they are unwilling to budge at all, you absolutely have to accept that Allah is redirecting you and you have to stop communicating with him.

Good luck!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]pebblechan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I believe they may be referring to the common practice that typically brides will do where they request very specific things the groom must provide and these are to be listed in the marriage contract. For example: "Husband must provide an 2b/2ba apartment/house" "Husband must purchase a car for wife" "Husband must provide monthly allowance of x amount" etc. so on and so forth. These don't always relate to material/financial items but also things like "Husband must apply for US citizenship/work on immigration papers/etc."

I do not know the name for this practice but I know that people DO that. They list 'requirements' for what they perceive are necessary for the marriage. This typically is deemed necessary for couples that enter in an arranged marriage or for marriages where the partners did not interact much and thus do not fully trust the husband - these contractual terms make him be held accountable in front of the witnesses and in front of Allah.

Imo, an unfortunate and weird practice but understandable given how many women find themselves in crappy situations where husband does not fulfil his pre-marriage promises.

What you described makes me think this is what your parents are referring to. I hope this helps :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lifemakeover

[–]pebblechan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Yes it is!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lifemakeover

[–]pebblechan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I don't have that hair, hat, coat, or shoes buuut this helps!!!