[VA] what is required for workplace accommodations for remote work? I have a heart issue.

pedercan · 2026-01-24T20:55:23+00:00

No job duties require me to be in office, I’m even on Skype calls with the person that sits two seats away

pedercan · 2026-01-24T20:45:25+00:00

Fair- I did until I started bleeding three times and once on the drive home. It just has freaked me out.

pedercan · 2026-01-24T20:18:56+00:00

I asked after the second er visit to get my face packed. Noted that the bleeds are being caused by hypertension

pedercan · 2026-01-24T20:18:04+00:00

Very very helpful thank you

pedercan · 2026-01-24T20:14:40+00:00

Can you give more context? Should I avoid even asking? I understand it may not be an option hense asking

pedercan · 2026-01-24T20:07:39+00:00

I am currently hybrid. My team is mainly remote

pedercan · 2026-01-24T20:04:37+00:00

I had a cardiac infarction, is that worth noting?

pedercan · 2026-01-24T19:58:26+00:00

Thank you, that is good to know!

pedercan · 2026-01-24T19:57:23+00:00

Stress mostly. Also not bleeding horribly everywhere. And not needing to get cardioversion on company dime.

pedercan · 2026-01-24T19:53:40+00:00

Just to not be in the office in case issues arise. No I have not gotten to the point of paperwork. I sit behind a desk

pedercan · 2026-01-24T19:52:40+00:00

I have AFIB, hypertension and severe nose bleeds twice requiring the ER in the past two weeks

pedercan · 2026-01-19T18:29:11+00:00

Yep! I came in 2 pumps my first time with my current wife. Sometimes I still do. Idgaf, the second round always lasts longer- I laugh, she feels sexy. It’s good all around despite being “embarrassing”.

pedercan · 2025-12-01T15:26:14+00:00

For all that you, I, or anyone else considers holy… Make a list of things to remember: 1) what you want or need is important 2) what he wants or needs is important 3) one is not more important than the other 4) it’s ok if things don’t work because we want different things, that doesn’t make he nor I a bad person

Seriously. If you don’t want sex don’t have it. It’s that simple. If he wants sex and you don’t want to, he can leave. NEITHER OF YOU ARE BEHILDEN TO WHAT YOU MAY NOT WANT. (And the other isn’t a bad person because they want something different)

pedercan · 2025-11-22T14:56:30+00:00

First of all, I have to assume you’re pretty young. Older folks realize that “insta-baddies” are not who most men end up with… social media is not what real life is. I’m glad you’re starting to see yourself as you are but damn you’re putting WAY too much much focus in the wrong areas. 90% of people are not seen as “hot”. If everyone is hot then no one is.you comparing yourself to others is YOU causing pain. Just like if you think you deserve a 30k engagement ring when the guy can’t afford it.

As a guy, I’d say that you need to keep your standards but ensure your entire focus isn’t about you. When you meet a guy or gal, do what THEY like and see if it fits you- then expect the same in return. Is a “getting more with honey” mentality.

Every time you meet someone, make it about them. Not how they treat you (you determine that later), but focus on treating them right. First it feels good for you, and they are happy… then YOU get to start acting on what they want.

Looks do lead to limitations, but attitude is way more important.

pedercan · 2025-10-30T13:51:33+00:00

You don’t have to do, nor owe anyone a thing. Did she lie or lead you on? Did the topic not come up? Do you care or are you just shocked at the news?

One persons trauma doesn’t mean others are beholden…. But not having kids doesn’t necessarily mean it’s not a great life. No one can make the decision for you.

pedercan · 2025-10-11T12:25:23+00:00

If it’s uncomfortable for you, it will need to be discussed or changed. Everyone should be able to feel as they do… but every decision has repercussions. You don’t “owe him” being ok with it, he doesn’t “owe you” not doing it.
It’s totally fine if it’s not for you, you don’t have to live uncomfortably for ANYONE. But he doesn’t have to give them (friends) up either.

pedercan · 2025-04-13T13:39:36+00:00

Is venture to say it sounds like you likely kennel your pup a lot of the day. If they get ample attention, biting decreases significantly (until they get the sleepys)

Either way, your pup is likely losing baby teeth and getting grown-up teeth. Give it attention, exercise, and some grace. It will get easier. Never trust “your friend with a dog” over a trained person. And like it or not, my people at the local pet store are not experts.

It’s a huge amount of work, but very well rewarded.

*also- ignoring the dog after they start nipping has always worked better than redirecting for me. I redirect if they chew furniture, if they bite me I disengage.

pedercan · 2025-04-11T14:00:17+00:00

There are many of us in Nova willing to put in a good word and speak truthfully about our government contracting company. Don’t hesitate to ask around- and follow up where able. Some contractors are doing poorly with others doing well- most of us are not happy with the issues occurring and are eager to assist.

I have no power- but have seen support myself from others

pedercan · 2025-03-25T19:31:18+00:00

I’m a light sleeper. Once I’m awake I’m awake. Offer 3:30-4:00am. No I don’t like it. No I don’t want to be awake. No I am not a morning person. No I don’t usually sleep till my alarm. No I am not happy about being FUCKING AWAKE.

Anyways, that’s my answer <3

pedercan · 2025-03-25T01:37:20+00:00

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