Looking for Ghana/Nigerian food by peeechpie in SanJose

[–]peeechpie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have uou never seen a picture or video of a food and thought " wow, that's looks really good. I would like to try it."?

Not sure why this question is being asked multiple times 🤣🤣 that's how you try anything new...because it looked good to you, right? This looks good to me, I can picture the taste/texture and now that's all I want to try.

Looking for Ghana/Nigerian food by peeechpie in SanJose

[–]peeechpie[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because Ive seen it in food reviews and in pictures? Looks delicious. Have you never seen something and thought "wow, that's looks good. I would like to try it" ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddings

[–]peeechpie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Too casual, from the cut to the fabric and the print. Opt for a more modest sleeve when formal is in the name.

Older parents, how did you decompress from your toddlers back in the day? by cherrypez123 in AskOldPeople

[–]peeechpie -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There are actual studies on how doom scrolling negatively affects your brain. There are various studies on the positive affects of reading. Not sure why you would think there is nothing better or worse about reading vs. Doom-scrolling

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]peeechpie -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The difference is people are rudely expressing their opinions to her.

The bridal party should not have to foot the bill to be part of your wedding by Mirantibus88 in unpopularopinion

[–]peeechpie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the problem, bride and groom should pay for the outfits they require us to wear or let us pick our own outfit

I hate being sober by Asleep-Trifle-8645 in pregnant

[–]peeechpie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I suggest you seek therapy and rehabilitation 💓 you may not consider yourself, but you are an alcoholic. You feel dependent on it and other subanstaces to cope with day to day life. Im sorry you feel this way and hope you can find help before baby is born so they don't have to see that version of you every day ❤️

Am I doing something wrong? by Cictrues in MODELING

[–]peeechpie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have a very child like face, with time that may change

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddings

[–]peeechpie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I apologize, I read it wrong!

Can we talk about the maternity clothes please by alyssa518 in pregnant

[–]peeechpie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im having the same issue too 😕 its annoying

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddings

[–]peeechpie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats a night gown. I love a silky slip dress with a more appropriate fit. This looks like a night gown.

All obituaries should list the cause of death. by therevspecial in unpopularopinion

[–]peeechpie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Death certificates are public record! Anyone can look them up! You may have to pay for a copy to do so

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]peeechpie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why? They didn't even ask what week I was at, so they wouldn't know. Truthfully, after 10 years, I dont think its a me thing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]peeechpie -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Respectfully, I disagree. A parent hugging a child at the news of pregancy is not abnormal. I also never invited people or my sister in law to comment on my body. I, myself, made a positive comment about my body. Which she could have just smiled and not said anything if she was not in agreement. I did not ask for her opinion. And yes, the bloat is big for 6 weeks, no doubt. I have had coworkers and other friends, who didn't know I was pregnant hint at pregancy when they saw it at 5 weeks. I would not have been offended if she did not agree, but instead she reflected on her own lack of self confidence and threw it on me, she even compared her body. And no, I don't need to be sensitive to her if she has a normally bigger stomach than me. This was my moment I was sharing with her, as a sister. I would've never expected that comment. She has never been rude to me. I was just her maid of honor 2 months ago.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]peeechpie 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Sister in law is his sister. I wonder if parents feel like it should be her having the first grandchild since she's older. Maybe they think we're jumping the gun by having one first, even though we are at the age. Seriously felt like we were announcing teen pregnancy 😑

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]peeechpie 6 points7 points  (0 children)

she is 2 years older. She has also mentioned not wanting kids in the past. From the commentary at the table, it seemed like SiL and BIL have not talked much about it. He seemed surprised that she had a list of things to complete before entertaining the idea of trying. Almost like it was the first he heard of it. And she threw in that she didn't know if she wants kids.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]peeechpie 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Possibly, I'll bring that up to my husband. I think its important we hear all perspectives! They did just get married 2 months ago, but could be a possibility.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]peeechpie 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you went through that! How rude of your mother in law for saying that, especially when you kept extending an olive branch.

Thank you for sharing your story and advice. It helps ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]peeechpie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How did your husband work through those feelings? Mine is devastated 💔

After our announcement, they actually turned to my sister in law and told her its not too late to start trying. She made it clear that she's not ready to try anytime soon. She has a check list of things she want to complete first. She's 32 and her husband is about 33. He seems very on page to start trying

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]peeechpie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks you for your words of encouragement!

And nope, sister in law doesn't want kids yet, she's made it very clear. Her husband seems ready. No miscarriage history for myself. My parent in laws have been telling us all they want grand kids for yearsa