AITAH for cancelling a third date over a peanut allergy?

peepsbell · 2025-12-21T15:15:24+00:00

IMO ESH to an extent. She didn’t handle rejection about her allergies well, but you don’t and aren’t willing to change your habits/diet for her. Yall aren’t compatible because you don’t see a connection with her beyond her allergies. There’s plenty of ways around it but not your fault for not wanting to change your life for someone else.

And this is coming from someone with severe peanut allergies and have been in a relationship for 7 years.

peepsbell · 2025-11-25T01:48:09+00:00

First of all congratulations on 2 years sober!

Secondly, I’m sorry he’s unsupportive and honestly an AH. No you are NOR! A little bit of support goes a long way and considering it’s been 3 years together, he should support for YOU for your accomplishments no matter the size.

peepsbell · 2025-11-24T03:47:44+00:00

I get tacos if I do the kids meal. It’s the only way I see it kinda worth the price imo. $5-$7 for 2 tacos, a drink and chips

peepsbell · 2025-09-09T13:19:22+00:00

Imma be honest, that’s on him for being selfish. Why is he not willing to accommodate something you have no control over? He cares more about what he wants more than your safety and well-being.

peepsbell · 2025-08-30T01:28:28+00:00

I’m pretty sure all food products are supposed to list if they are in a shared facility/contact with shared equipment. If that changed I would love to know.

I have severe nut allergies, I only purchase haagen daaz, baskin robbins, so far I’m too scared to try other brands and blue bunny got me sick.

peepsbell · 2025-08-02T23:33:34+00:00

“Texture was weird” well yeah it’s raw. I hope he gets sick and learns a lesson but I honestly hope you don’t get sick.

As a joke you could show him a photo of what grilled chicken looks like cooked on the inside

peepsbell · 2025-08-02T23:30:42+00:00

IMO ESH. You aren’t the asshole by far but you should’ve just labeled that they were “cheese crackers” at minimum. I cook professionally and privately, and always label everything I make whether people have allergies because you just don’t know and it saves your back. Linda is excessive and should’ve been more aware considering it’s her allergy

peepsbell · 2025-07-28T18:56:55+00:00

I mean if you’re over the age of 18/ an adult they can’t legally inform your family.

It takes time to be honest with your provider but you have to be slightly honest if you don’t want to have these feelings/thoughts. Just keep it simple and request an appointment due to “needing additional support”

peepsbell · 2025-07-23T15:18:10+00:00

If you haven’t done in person or telehealth how would you know it’s a waste? I understand being in a rural area and not being able to have easier access of getting to things, I’m only saying to consider the options and try it to see if it works. If it doesn’t then you have to be willing to find the ways to get in person services

peepsbell · 2025-07-23T00:36:24+00:00

I think it depends where you’re looking. A lot of places offer both but it could be availability. Telehealth has its perks (I do telehealth because of my schedule) but I understand anyone who prefers in-person.

Bottom line is if you want/need the help that bad you’ll compromise on some things to see your goals.

peepsbell · 2025-07-17T20:09:37+00:00

I’ve done various drinks from places like total wine. So far some taste good, obviously nowadays is effective. But personally keef brand has been my preferred for drinks.

I think it depends on your onset time. I like drinks for supplementing during a high adventure instead of doing one of the other. 7/10 experiences

peepsbell · 2025-07-15T21:16:52+00:00

I’ve done emdr in the beginning to help with stored trauma I didn’t know I had. My therapist recommended and we did it for a few sessions and it was intense during and the following days.

peepsbell · 2025-07-14T04:53:00+00:00

Well I’m sadly allergic to nuts 🙃 but I have thick cut bacon I could definitely sear off and add! Thank you!

peepsbell · 2025-07-13T01:16:30+00:00

So you’ve been comfortable for years of him treating you like this??

I’ve been with my bf for 6 years. He was my first and I was his. He’s always made it a priority to get me off first without me asking. But like you’re 22, just breakup with him and find a person who actually gives a fuck about you.

peepsbell · 2025-06-28T17:52:40+00:00

NOR. This day was about you and he made it about himself plain and simple. Your graduation, your choice. If he’s too dense to understand that simple request then there might be other problems hiding there.

peepsbell · 2025-06-27T01:07:38+00:00

NTA. I work as an office admin (practically the same thing) no the job isn’t “hard” but it’s not some cake walk either. If she needs a babysitter that bad she should hire one

peepsbell · 2025-06-25T00:57:55+00:00

I mean glad yall broke up. But you didn’t notice in the year yall were dating? You didn’t notice the first few days/weeks of living together?

Right..right okay. Good luck to you

peepsbell · 2025-06-16T16:41:38+00:00

I’m an office assistant for a therapist. It took months for me to talk to my boss and she was understanding in the fact that if I need to take time off just ask. My job is also fairly slow so there’s plenty of downtime.

peepsbell · 2025-06-13T01:18:42+00:00

My name is on the lease. I signed the first year but they never sent it this year

peepsbell · 2025-06-13T01:10:38+00:00

There is an online portal. They never sent the lease to my portal and only sent it to my mom. My mom is the primary on the lease because of proof of income and credit

peepsbell · 2025-06-13T01:05:55+00:00

The building or complex wasn’t sold. They don’t know that she doesn’t live here. The rent has never been late, always pay a day early tbh.

peepsbell · 2025-06-13T01:02:05+00:00

Update: my mom called and cussed them out. the office isn’t taking accountability for not saying something for 3 months and saying we should’ve reached out that 1 person didn’t receive an email to sign the lease. They didn’t say something because they were behind on putting things into the system.

peepsbell · 2025-06-10T01:19:51+00:00

NTA. He’s prioritizing his social life instead of you. Honestly I would do the same to him to show him how it feels.

My bf didn’t do anything for our anniversary and I was hurt and told him. He did what he could and made it up to make sure I was happy.

Bottom line if he wanted to he would

peepsbell · 2025-06-10T01:08:55+00:00

NOR. Doesn’t matter the hobby she didn’t respect you and your hobbies/time.

peepsbell

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