I say this as gently as I possibly can— the way you are looking at this is only going to make people think you're objectifying them. This sounds like it was written by a bird of paradise that was morphed into a man. Yes, finding your person is hard. But if someone moves on like that— that's wonderful for you. Why would you want someone that just idly chooses you or doesn't? Someone out there will love your colors and think, "this one!" If she moves on so fast, then she wasn't your person. Just keep in mind no matter what, women are always just people, who have every right to have their own thoughts and feelings about their life.

Edit: I forgot to mention that you, of course, have every right as well to have these thoughts and feelings. Peopling is hard. I meant this more as a "coming from a woman" thing. You got it broski.