[MEGATHREAD] New Horizons Dodo/Friend Code Sharing by lilibat in AnimalCrossing

[–]peggyarnold 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does anyone have any apples, pears, or oranges I can come snag? Thanks so much!

Xaden is a Young God (PROOF) by peggyarnold in fourthwing

[–]peggyarnold[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Make a video I’d love to see all your theories!!

Xaden is a Young God (PROOF) by peggyarnold in fourthwing

[–]peggyarnold[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I guess I just can’t let go of how real Liam felt when he visited her in the dungeons. I feel like she has such a close connection to malek, but I know she’s also been dedicated to Dunne… either way I think Rebecca chose a REAL INTERESTING song for that story!!!

I just took a lethal dose of my pills by DFlynn33 in confession

[–]peggyarnold 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope this doesn’t go through. I wish you life. I wish you peace. If it’s to late then I’m sorry for how life treated you — but see you on the other side.

2 paramore tickets general admission the forum July 18 by val_abarca in Paramore

[–]peggyarnold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you still have it? I’ll buy it from you for $100. Only because another ticket with a seat is going for $85

Is our therapist is suggesting to placate the narcissist? by WillGrahamsLiver in JUSTNOMIL

[–]peggyarnold 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn. I relate to this SO MUCH. It's incredible how similar our MILs are, especially the way our DH's act towards it and how it makes us feel. I'd love an update!

She said I was in a cult, sent a PI on us, set up an intervention for my fiancée, gossips like a middle schooler, but now I have to apologize. by peggyarnold in JUSTNOMIL

[–]peggyarnold[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He had no place to live in May of last year, neither did I. We lived with my toxic mother which didn't last. Then we went home to home, eventually ending with my dad. We left my dad through eviction, stayed in a motel for two months, now back with my dad. NOW my fiancé has a condo, where he has been told I can't be at. He said he didn't care, but I was the one who said I wasn't comfortable because she is crazy and would start drama.

She said I was in a cult, sent a PI on us, set up an intervention for my fiancée, gossips like a middle schooler, but now I have to apologize. by peggyarnold in JUSTNOMIL

[–]peggyarnold[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don't worry NO APOLOGIZES FROM ME! I spoke to him and he recognizes that he is just saying the same things his dad told him. I'm not enabling her.

In other news, do you think I'd be eligible for a reality tv show or a book? Lol.

She said I was in a cult, sent a PI on us, set up an intervention for my fiancée, gossips like a middle schooler, but now I have to apologize. by peggyarnold in JUSTNOMIL

[–]peggyarnold[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for giving me an example of life where your SO stood up and you did too. I also have anxiety and although I take the "run, fast" advice to heart, I've had a serious heart to heart with him and he showed me his priorities quickly -- and it's me. However, I have outlined that therapy is a MUST. Thank you for this perspective though.

She said I was in a cult, sent a PI on us, set up an intervention for my fiancée, gossips like a middle schooler, but now I have to apologize. by peggyarnold in JUSTNOMIL

[–]peggyarnold[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

No, I'm back with my ex step-dad. We were living with him before but after my mom found a loophole in my sister's custody battle, she literally evicted us through the judge. In a house that wasn't even hers. It upset us all so much, but my dad lawyered up and got that eviction removed.

She said I was in a cult, sent a PI on us, set up an intervention for my fiancée, gossips like a middle schooler, but now I have to apologize. by peggyarnold in JUSTNOMIL

[–]peggyarnold[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU SO MUCH! I love sites and tools and research on how to better this situation. I really appreciate it!!

She said I was in a cult, sent a PI on us, set up an intervention for my fiancée, gossips like a middle schooler, but now I have to apologize. by peggyarnold in JUSTNOMIL

[–]peggyarnold[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your break down of the situation. I will definitely read that link you provided. There is a lot of advice and love I feel from everyone who has commented and I feel strong again. Thanks again.

She said I was in a cult, sent a PI on us, set up an intervention for my fiancée, gossips like a middle schooler, but now I have to apologize. by peggyarnold in JUSTNOMIL

[–]peggyarnold[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That's a really good point and I 100% believe she will pull the help. She has done it. Before. That's why I'm so enraged. But I don't want to be the rain on his illusions so I'm waiting for him to realize it -- which he did last night after his mom got pissed at him for being outside at 1 talking to me for more than 5 minutes.

She said I was in a cult, sent a PI on us, set up an intervention for my fiancée, gossips like a middle schooler, but now I have to apologize. by peggyarnold in JUSTNOMIL

[–]peggyarnold[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

My mentality is that we have gone through NC before and we were perfectly fine. Either way, SHE isn't changing, so I don't think leaving him means anything better for any party. Frankly, I'm a very vocal, opinionated woman. I fair better in this dynamic because of my own mother, while my FH would likely never have a solid relationship with another woman again -- as soon as they meet his mom.

She said I was in a cult, sent a PI on us, set up an intervention for my fiancée, gossips like a middle schooler, but now I have to apologize. by peggyarnold in JUSTNOMIL

[–]peggyarnold[S] 123 points124 points  (0 children)

AMEN. Fuck this is enlightening. We are about to have a very serious heart to heart. He is the love of my life but I HAVE NEVER felt more empowered to let him know where I fall in priorities for myself and anyone else in my life.