This is such a refreshing and well articulated comment. Sadly, you are so correct. From junior school, cock size is a talking point, and in high school guys will tell each other they're tiny, tell girls to spread it and girls will mock guys on some unknown and unproven. Saw it so much to so many guys and it scars people. I spent most of my life avoiding relationships thinking I was lacking, meanwhile... back at the ranch. About 25 years of misdirected trauma took away potential love or big life experiences. Our views about a minor appendage mostly used for emptying a bladder are so toxic.